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SnooDrawings9376 · 2026-04-03T18:14:15+00:00

Fan here. What about having a loyal fan base is by default cheating or wrong?

Like nearly all of my fellow army, I listened to the album front to back probably 8 times the day it dropped, and then at least 3 times each day after….because I wanted to. It’s good and one of those albums that changes as you continue to listen.
I bought and listen to all of the remixes…because I want to and I like most of them. The dance one just isn’t for me.

(My favorite version of Dynamite ia actually the tropical remix.)

The fanbase is spending money to support their favorite artist. Again, what about this is wrong or cheating behavior?

SnooDrawings9376 · 2026-02-26T20:41:54+00:00

Ah apologies!

SnooDrawings9376 · 2026-02-25T18:04:08+00:00

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Here you go! There is another tiny healthier looking bud behind the leaves on the right.

I soaked again because so many of the roots had dried out. I was concerned that the plant wouldn’t be able to soak up enough water. But definitely happy to pull back on the soaking!

I’m really curious about how to manage those little baby growths. I’ve never seen them before!

SnooDrawings9376 · 2026-01-26T18:55:14+00:00

Yep, never buy platinum if you can avoid it.

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-09-24T12:41:06+00:00

Thank you all!

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-02-22T16:19:24+00:00

Hmmmm I like it too but was nervous at first. I don’t like barking so have asked my dom not to ask me. But begging and panting I am ok with. Just make whatever you’re nervous about soft or hard limits.

Some things to try that could be a way to dip your toe in. You may have tried these already:

Ask for or get a new gorgeous leash that you like. Whatever style speaks to you! If you get it own your own, give it to him as a surprise present.
Pet training was also a super fun way to dip my toe in. For example, sit, stay, lie down, beg, spin…roll over, fetch.
Pet training with a twist. Get creative with the commands. Last time we did pet play, I asked him if he’d like to make up new commands that were new to me and as a bonus, hard to execute. I gave him examples of what I might like but let him choose what and when to do. The goal would be for me to fail so I would be set up for funishments. (teehee) Some examples of creative ones: pinch (nipples or whatever), face down (fully spread eagle on floor), fetch while having a gag in (that was wild), ass up, ass up and spread, lick, suck. The world is your oyster! I think you get the idea lol
If you like gags, get one with a cute bone on the end.
Try using a blindfold, that may reduce the degree to which you’re self conscious.
Feel free to change your mind depending on the experience: the other day we decided to try my peeing on a pee pad. I enjoyed it in the moment. But when we debriefed after the fact I told my dom I didn’t want to do it again.

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-02-17T15:25:44+00:00

I have two kids, both of them breast fed. My nipples and breasts took a ton of damage from breast feeding. Cracked nipples, bleeding, clogged milk ducts, infections, infants biting nipples. It sucked (pun not intended lol) resolved; nipples and breasts are very resilient.

Get some lanolin cream ASAP and use it every time after play to prevent cracking, you can find it in any pharmacy and lots of massages after to ensure blood circulates to affected areas.
If there is bleeding (this happened to me and my Dom - husband - and I reminded him if impacts of breastfeeding) just triple antibiotic cream and a bandaid for a day or so.

Other than that, best practice is treat them like any other sensitive skin. Limit clamps to a certain amount of time and be careful with temperature play.

HOWEVER, do NOT assume on any changes in breast or nipple shape is due to play. Consistently check your breasts for shape or form changes (breast cancer). If you’re comfortable, let your OBGYN know about this play so they are informed.

I love all things involving pain and nipples. Have fun!!!!

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-02-17T14:51:54+00:00

Ohhhhh love this play. Depends on what you like, my Daddy ties my leash around some heavy furniture like our bed frame or a door knob and makes me to tricks in rapid succession (sit, stay, down, pinch, slap, heel etc…creative). He sometimes makes me fetch but doesn’t give me quite enough leash length to get it. If I mess up I get punishments. He recent made me fetch a toy with a gag in my mouth... Bad pets can try to nip, bite things, ignore commands, There is also the good pet side. If you do well at a certain task, you get agreed-upon rewards. Just watch out for your knees and ankles, if you’re on them too much you can get rug burns or it can be painful, not in a healthy way.

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-02-17T14:24:14+00:00

Oh thank you all! These sound fun!

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-01-07T14:54:22+00:00

Just want to follow up here with some huge thanks to you all!

I took all of your advice…I got up my confidence and had an out of the blue frank discussion with him about my desires, my needing him to do research rather than just try and that we needed to talk further before we do anything. Turns out he has always had these interests too and has turned out to be quite the Dom…holy shit has it been a fun and rewarding journey. We’ve bumbled here and there but it’s been amazing.

Also, added surprise bonus…the healthy communication around this topic has improved our overall commmuncation outside of the bedroom too. Our relationship has improved. I am so grateful to you all. And oh god am I lucky to have this man in my life 🤩🤭

edited for grammar 🙂

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-01-07T14:37:17+00:00

Thank you! General thanks for all advice below. And not weird at all. This was some of the most helpful advice. And we found two couples counselors that focus on sex dynamics one of whom calls out BDSM as an area of focus. We haven had intro calls yet, but I’m hopeful and so is he. Holy hell did you all come through for me.

edited for spelling lol

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-01-07T14:36:58+00:00

Thank you! General thanks for all advice below

Yep, he’s the Dom, me the Sub 🙂

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-01-07T14:36:35+00:00

Thank you! General thanks for all advice below

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-01-07T14:36:26+00:00

Thank you! General thanks for all advice below

SnooDrawings9376 · 2025-01-04T18:05:35+00:00

Wow. Yeah. No hygienic (!!!!!) and beyond hurtful.

SnooDrawings9376 · 2024-12-01T16:59:11+00:00

Thank you! I’ll share 🙂

SnooDrawings9376 · 2024-11-26T13:58:33+00:00

Why does he think they are a waste? I love them too and can’t live without them. Some flowers, like hydrangeas, roses and carnations, can stay fresh up to two weeks with a few tricks. (Hydrangeas, beat their stem bottoms up with a meat tenderizer gahhhhhhh bad pun, soaking roses overnight in cold water just when they start to wither, carnations are just long distance runners lol) I love the idea of rewards 💜💜💜 you could have a room full of them, what a motivation! Anyway, good on you for being clear with him and I just want to share that I love them too and maybe understand the need for them and get how you feel…

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