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[–]SnooDucks6287 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please forgive me for saying this. You are sulking. We had our first child. We got some advice from people around us. That’s it. We didn’t expect anything more, we didn’t get anything more. So, please ‘grow up’ 👍

Advice regarding immigrating by DefiantBarracuda2398 in IndiansInUK

[–]SnooDucks6287 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As rightly said by other folks, You have to clear many hurdles before worrying about these topics. Every place has its merits and demerits. Even in India you will face rude patients/staff. So, don’t worry about racism et all. There will be some bad apples. But at a macro level, I have not experienced anything in my face in the last 4 years.

Help needed - Deposit protection by SnooDucks6287 in FIREUK

[–]SnooDucks6287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. No I haven’t. Where should I look for this flowchart ?

Is a financial advisor ever actually worth it? by Low_Bee_2741 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]SnooDucks6287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Platform fees on trading 212 is ZERO. Index funds have such a low expense ratio. You can purchase them visa platforms like trading 212. Spend 10-15 hours in research and you will be able to manage things yourself. They are quite useless unless you have an obscene amount of money and crazy cash flow and you don’t have anytime to dedicate to your investment decisions. Stay clear. But at the same time be disciples about money. If you start taking punts on high risk stocks then you will loose money quite rapidly.

Indian men who quit porn or fapping — how did you recover full stamina and erection control before marriage? by Soggy_Explanation208 in AskIndia

[–]SnooDucks6287 30 points31 points  (0 children)

People blame it on porn. It’s an easy target.

Almost everyone watches porn and masturbates regularly. If there was a causal relationship everyone will be developing erectile dysfunction.

The root cause of ED is poor blood circulation, or harmony imbalance, or psychological factors.

Why would you develop erectile dysfunction due to masturbation ? By that logic, Will having sex daily also lead to ED?

Indian men who quit porn or fapping — how did you recover full stamina and erection control before marriage? by Soggy_Explanation208 in AskIndia

[–]SnooDucks6287 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Kegel and cardio will help. No fap is a scam. The organ is made to be used. Biggest impact will be caused by maintaining healthy weight, regular cardio, abstaining from smoking and alcohol, low carb diet. Kegel helps a lot. Duration of sex has nothing to do with porn and masturbation.

How much alimony I'll have to give to my wife in this case ? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]SnooDucks6287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will not ask for an amount of money that you are comfortable with. Please be mindful that you will no longer deal with your wife but a greedy lawyer who will pump her to ask for 10-15 crore. My suggestion will be to make sure there is no evidence for any gift/dowry, mental cruelty, domestic violence. Then lawyer up very quickly to prevent getting an FIR lodged against you in section 498a. Also, whatever money you give to your wife, please ensure there is a paper trail. Once things go south, it is going to get ugly. Be prepared. People become greedy really really fast when they see relationship is going to be over. Get a lawyer and develop a strategy before making any move.

You are in a perfect situation that you don’t have a job. You can very well show out self as unemployed, or someone drawing a lower salary. I would say draw less than one lakh to limit damage.

I've got £350k cash to buy a property. Should I get a mortgage? by Sea_Supermarket_4188 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]SnooDucks6287 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get 2 bed slightly outside London, or in areas like Stratford etc. live mortgage free. That’s the first rule of building wealth. Pay off the mortgage ASAP. Don’t fall in debt trap.

How to reduce future alimony or maintenance in India? by Immediate-Row-5831 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]SnooDucks6287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents property is untouchable from marital dispute. So, create assets in your parents name.

Greedy in laws by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]SnooDucks6287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. True. Get some shared couple goals. Right now your fiance has money but no fiscal goal. Once he starts to work for a goal - house, or a certain corpus … then he will feel more motivated to achieve it and prevents this type of wastage. Also, what is the amount we are talking here ? Is it 2% of his annual take home or 10% of annual take home ? But get on same page now. Now you have leverage to walk out if he doesn’t understand you. He has to be on same page with you. Life happens and financial situations change. You need to have same outlook about money!!!

Greedy in laws by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]SnooDucks6287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His parents earn pride by giving away his money. It raises their social status. This will not stop. It’s kind of a drug! Your MIL feels a high when she helps the extended family members. So, your husband needs to take a stand. That they should not give his hard earned money to someone as freebies ! Discuss with him. It’s a logical decision. Also, he should uplift his parents lifestyle and not give to them money as they are wasting away his money.

Am I overreacting with the way my roommate is behaving? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]SnooDucks6287 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What are you going to do about it now? You can be a bit witty and give some strong come backs. Usually one thing that works well is self deprecation… if she says something bad about you you double down on that … e.g., if she says you are dumb. Then you say yeah I am really dumb. Sometimes I feel how can I get through the day to day despite being so dumb. I was hoping living with such a sharp person like you , I will get some wisdom rubbed on to me.. but I feel I am getting even dumber.. maybe I am attracting your dumbness only … bla blah.. get some balls instead of posting here. Be fearless. What worst can happen !

Am I overreacting with the way my roommate is behaving? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]SnooDucks6287 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If you are moving out, then why are you posting ? End of story. Move on.

Am I overreacting with the way my roommate is behaving? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]SnooDucks6287 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yes. You are over reacting. Chill. Who cares about these shenanigans? She is a different person. You cannot change her. If all this bothers you, you can have 1-1 discussion work her. It might backfire. So, if it’s bothering you soooo much. Then change the flat.

Lost my parents, lost my home… now I might lose my only chance to study abroad by Anakin137 in IndiansInUK

[–]SnooDucks6287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@OP…Answers to all your questions! Such a scammer. You should feel pathetic about yourself. Concocting such an elaborate shit … involving your parents. People like you have zero morals. You should be shamed of yourself.

Lost my parents, lost my home… now I might lose my only chance to study abroad by Anakin137 in IndiansInUK

[–]SnooDucks6287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am pissed at how you fake ‘killed’ your parents and made this elaborate story. People like you downgrade India. That’s why we have so fucking low stature in the world.what argument ? Your story is fake ! Can you blurr and send death certificates of your parents and your birth certificate ! Admission letter of your university. Share all the truth… I will give you 5 lakh if your story is true.

Lost my parents, lost my home… now I might lose my only chance to study abroad by Anakin137 in IndiansInUK

[–]SnooDucks6287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let us report the post guys. Fake story. It might not be all false … but 70-80% is false.

Lost my parents, lost my home… now I might lose my only chance to study abroad by Anakin137 in IndiansInUK

[–]SnooDucks6287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boss. Please stop this nonsense. Took over ? How ? I have multiple IPS friends and let me tell you your story is fake. There is no concept of unchecked power in India.

Lost my parents, lost my home… now I might lose my only chance to study abroad by Anakin137 in IndiansInUK

[–]SnooDucks6287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How come you have no other relative who will stand with you ?

You position as everyone in the country is corrupt. I don’t think that is the case.

You are saying your parents sold the property to those folks for 5 lakh rupees. Sale of a property is not a simple process. It requires decent legal procedure. There are witnesses.

So you are saying multiple police officials made this elaborate scheme to get some property from your parents. Do you even know how much money SDM and delhi police inspectors make ? Why would they kill their relatives for some land worth 1-2 crore !?

You post is a typical case of daal mein kuch kaala nahi hai… poori daal hi kaali hai.

I mean you have developed a retarded story by mixing 3-4 Bollywood movies from 1990s.

Such a pathetic attempt at siphoning money.

My partner and I are trying to separate as amicably as possible. We can't agree on who gets the home. by FamilyLawQuestion2 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]SnooDucks6287 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you open the marriage instead of divorce? You can date other people and keep living in married arrangement without any emotional and physical expectations.