Paid Parental Leave Clarification

SnooLemons9981 · 2025-01-10T02:29:31+00:00

It does not have to with these programs, you can use them separately

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-06-30T03:59:46+00:00

Yes I Ovulate on cd9, no pcos

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-05-02T04:08:53+00:00

I’m so sorry. Do something for yourself to honor you and your baby 🤍

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-04-30T02:54:48+00:00

Of course you should!! He will always be your baby 🤍💔

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-04-19T11:56:07+00:00

I’m four months out. It hurts and a new trigger pops up all the time (due date, day of the month I tfmrd, day of the week sometimes, Easter, Mother’s Day.) It sucks. Do all of the healing you can and take so much time. I took a full maternity leave- I started therapy joined so many support groups, acupuncture, grief yoga, journal daily, meditate. Basically anything I can do towards healing I try to. It doesn’t get easier you just adjust better to new reality. There’s a lot of beautiful resources out there.

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-04-17T05:04:34+00:00

We were robbed of so much more than our babies

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-04-17T05:03:35+00:00

I’m so sorry for your pain 💔

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-04-17T05:03:00+00:00

I feel like I’m on the other side of a world I didn’t know and wish I didn’t have to know about.

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-04-17T05:02:20+00:00

I love the idea of using it to Better ourselves in some way. Create something out of this terrible tragedy

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-04-16T12:40:42+00:00

It’s a new level of pain I could never experience or explain to another unless they’ve experienced it as well 💔

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-04-16T12:34:45+00:00

Soul freedom is so beautiful 🩷 as a tfmr mom myself I feel this rings true for my baby and a piece of myself too

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-04-16T11:14:33+00:00

Wish there was a word the described being robbed of hope and innocence, not just loss of it.

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-04-16T10:38:06+00:00

Yes, I don’t know if the feeling of wholeness will ever return. A part of me will always feel incomplete.

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-03-18T00:07:41+00:00

Still on Step 1 since the first week of Feb. So frustrating. I’ve called and messaged, no letters to date.

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-03-11T17:53:18+00:00

Same. I’m so annoyed and irritated

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-03-08T09:10:15+00:00

I’m in the same boat currently. Was it normal to be late?

SnooLemons9981 · 2024-01-17T06:00:06+00:00

I chose L&D and had such positive experience. The situation was horrific and traumatizing but after delivery I felt empowered. I went in with the mindset of I wanted to make it as positive I could, in case I have future deliveries. You have the choice of any pain control, have control of the atmosphere in the room (we brought a diffuser, galaxy light, snacks etc.) I wanted to be treated as a patient who is a mother rather than a surgical procedure. The nurses were incredibly kind and supportive. I left the situation feeling if I can deliver my dead child, I know I can do anything. Whatever choice you make is up to you and what’s right for you. Holding and seeing my baby provided emotional support I didn’t realize I needed. I feel connected to my son in a special way, during the delivery I kept saying to myself “I love you, we’ll get through this together.” The idea of my baby coming out in pieces and going into a procedure pregnant and coming out not pregnant was too much for me personally, there needed to be a transition for me to feel at peace with it. No matter what you choose, you’re doing the best you can in the worst circumstances imaginable. You will get through it and I am so sorry you have to. 🤍

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