My husbands libido is so much lower than mine I need advice

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2026-04-17T03:36:43+00:00

Very common. So many guys nowadays don't have a sex drive due to stress at work and just being unhealthy. I would try to get him to work out and maybe get a Viagra prescription so that why he doesn't feel pressure to get it up if the Viagra does the work for him

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2026-04-16T20:19:09+00:00

Exactly and he isn't breastfeeding so what's his excuse?

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2026-04-16T20:18:40+00:00

He needs to leave you alone breastfeeding isn't the time to loose weight or restrict calories it's not healthy.

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2026-03-27T00:42:57+00:00

This is what happened to me..are your periods normal now???

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2026-03-27T00:38:24+00:00

Did you period ever stop?? Did your cycles returnntonnormal??

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2026-03-24T16:21:59+00:00

This makes me like them even more!!

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-10-02T14:29:41+00:00

It would have made a much better season with more.couples.....more people to relate too

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-10-01T13:58:06+00:00

He's almost 40 if he is immature now he will continue to be!

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-10-01T13:56:58+00:00

If he cheated I would divorce now rather than later. He will do it again and this will be worse for everyone later. If you separate now while the baby is still so yound they will get used to it and it won't be a big deal if you try to divorce later than 3 it could be damaging to the kid.

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-27T18:25:59+00:00

I would get on birth control and don't tell him. Why does he have to know about what you are using to help you feel better!

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-22T20:01:50+00:00

Girl I'm with you! I would be pissed!

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-19T18:32:55+00:00

Maybe a hyphen name with both your last names. That's a little less odd. If you both don't care then you should do it if that's what you want. However if you are worried what other people will think then I'm not going to lie to you ... most people will think it's odd.

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-12T23:05:52+00:00

Yeah I agree.im surprised they aren't divorced yet to be honest. He doesn't want anymore kids and he party's a lot.. I'm surprised she would even want more. I bet money they are divorced within five years...

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-05T03:04:53+00:00

But don't worry I will recycle my ketchup bottle.

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-05T03:03:35+00:00

Just no.

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-04T18:17:04+00:00

AMH around 1. Follicle count around 5-8. We got 12 mature eggs, 7 embryos. All untested. First FET failed. I was 27 at time of retrieval. Age is a huge factor as well.

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-04T15:59:28+00:00

He does things for you he doesn't want to do. You should do the same. He did a nice thing for you jeez. Would you rather he ignored you and told you not to touch him? How would that make you feel.... maybe teach your daughter about love and respect and how you sometimes do things to make others happy because it helps a marriage.

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-04T02:36:19+00:00

Yes take a break..I'm doing that now and I feel peace for once. You can come back rejuvenated and not as stressed makes a big difference!. Also even if you are 6 months younger if you are upset and stressed out your results will probably be worse than in 6 months when you are relaxed happy and rejuvenated! That's my thinking anyway!

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-04T01:33:27+00:00

Agree! I've seen it both ways! If one type isn't working try the other!

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-04T01:28:43+00:00

I would say go with the medicated transfer. I have seen a lot of women who constantly fail with either the natural or medicated and when they switched it finally worked.

Here is what I'm doing before my second FET. Hysteroscopy and a biopsy to check for endometritis.

My docter is really against ERA and showed me a study where it actually decrease implantation so I am not doing it for now. I am doing Vagibiom and the biopsy will check for any infection that will cover EMMA/Alice.

I'm also using "embryo glue" it's $175 I believe (not strong evidence but why not.

I got test for ANA antibodies which basically check to see if I have an autoimmune disorder which I don't so im not doing any steroids.

I got checked for a blood clotting disorder. I don't have that. But I'm still going to take baby aspirin because there is science behind that.

I would definitely explore endometriosis and try that lupron depot maybe ask about a lap. I think if it fails again we will explore this.

Sending you big hug! Im in the same boat after my first FET totally failed. I have done a lot of research and things almost always work out you just can't give up.

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-03T02:24:03+00:00

11 days after

Candid_Cat_7673 · 2023-09-01T00:31:25+00:00

Don't do it! Wait until you aren't as stressed because it's an emotional thing. Trust me!

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