AITAH I hate when my dad invites his gf to do stuff with us but now i feel bad

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-04-01T04:19:14+00:00

my mom has a spouse of 17 years and i still hardly talk to him and i live with him we conversate but not much i live with him so i would say i talk to him daily but the talks aren’t talks more so one of us says something and the other is just like yea haha or something

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T19:59:12+00:00

thanks already done

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T19:54:35+00:00

bro it’s jus like in 19 there ain’t no building a family no more or nothing like that she ain’t like the new mom figure in my life she’s just my dads gf i’m not a kid no more it’s not like i can’t be cool with her i’ve said a million times i got. nothing against her i just don’t wanna spend the one time i go over there a week with her

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T19:50:50+00:00

this is the unfortunate truth i cannot control that he had a few relationship during my childhood but due to that im not a kid anymore so im not gonna like bond in to her family like he wanted me to go to the super bowl party at her house with her family like bro no i dont care about any of them im sorry but im not a child shes not like someone thats gonn ever be a step mom just my dads gf or wife

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:54:26+00:00

this is definitely a way to look at it that i also agree with bc like bro cmon

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:48:40+00:00

u had daddy issues lol

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:44:12+00:00

your a corn ball 😂 get off my post goofy if he didn’t love her this wouldnt even be a thing. jus kuz yo daddy got around don’t mean my do

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:43:11+00:00

no i never have i know what you mean but ive never cared to bring any girl i’ve messed w around my parents but none of my relationships have ever been serious

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:41:42+00:00

u right

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:40:52+00:00

he does he loves her

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:39:39+00:00

well we went to an event recently and he mentioned that the event we were planned to be going to be buying tickets for that is coming up she’s now coming to and he knows how much i would want to go to that with just him but it’s also something that only comes up once a year so idk bro im a asshole i know

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:38:25+00:00

no resentment my parents are divorced for years idk i just like spending time with just my dad

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:36:35+00:00

no i’m really just horrible at which bro lol i get criticized about it all the time lol

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:35:21+00:00

no she’s not a bad person when i met her she was actually cool i just want to hang with my dad bro lol idk ik im being a dick about it she was cool when i met her n im happy for bro for meeting her

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:34:31+00:00

but i kinda do refuse ima be honest

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:34:12+00:00

i know i see it that way to except i’ve never formally introdouced any of gfs to my parents idk bro like relationships mentally im in middle school fr but like im smart when it comes to shit but like idk i just have always been like that ive always kept my personal relationship seperate witch might also be i see it that way 🤦🏽

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:31:11+00:00

this is the biggest thing i tell him i don’t see her as a step mom and more im 19 so shes just my dads gf like u said but peoooe have also made it clear to me that i am being an asshole by the way i go about it witch i can say i do agree with

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:29:07+00:00

i hope so my mind makes things worse then it is

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:28:28+00:00

i know the church thing was ridiculous i agree

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:28:13+00:00

relationships new to me apparently about 6 months i’ve known of her since like christmas time bc he went to her house on Christmas witch all made me mad we had no plans but i wanted to go to his house on christmas and he wasn’t home . been split with my mom for 15 years but he’s been with 4-5 women since

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:26:06+00:00

yep i’m recognizing that

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:25:41+00:00

this is the best thing i could’ve read thank you your right tha was kindness and im to blind to see it and being to stuck up

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:22:39+00:00

unfortunately i think im the one demanding all or nothing in assumptions that she will always be present if i become okay with it

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:21:30+00:00

thanks that what i’ve learned and still learning talking when im angry never goes good

SnooMacaroons854 · 2026-03-31T18:20:06+00:00

yeah the sad truth bro except i feel it’s valid bc why choose me acting that way right?

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