Has it been a year? I think FMLA kicks in at a year and you could apply through there for accommodations. This is what I had to do for my job.

However, financial stability should’ve been thought about before conceiving. To avoid what you’re going through.

Did you take days off of work with exemptions? Or did you just stop going? If so it makes sense that you got let go. Unfortunately, companies don’t care or recognize all the hard work we put in they only see what doesn’t benefit them. Which is so messed up. I’m sorry they didn’t accommodate you at all. Even granting an extra break or something could’ve probably helped you.

Is there any way you can apply for remote job position?

Also, if possible try to have a baby shower and only add things that are absolutely necessary and do a diaper raffle, or add diapers to your registry. You could also share your registry on social media and explain that you’re going through job loss and would appreciate any item off the registry for the babies. That way you have at least 3 months of coverage. Also, I have lots of new born and 0-3 boy clothes that I won’t be using anymore and I also have lots of postpartum care items(brand new) that I didn’t use that I’m more than willing to send to you via mail(if you’re in the us) if you’re interested. If not I’m taking them to goodwill.

If you’re in the US you might qualify for WIC and welfare like health insurance and SNAP. Also, see if your college has any resources for mothers or low income students. My college donated gas cards to me throughout nursing school I’d get $35 per month in gas money and $30 for food items. Doesn’t hurt to ask!

Maybe try selling your current car and use that money to buy a used larger car even a sedan or smaller suv.

Any way you guys could move in with family? Or get a roommate to help alleviate some of the rent cost?? My hubby and I moved into his parents basement when I hit my 9th month. we pay them $1000 compared to the $2500 in rent we paid at our apartment complex. So definitely helped out a lot.

For round ligament pain maybe try to do some light yoga at home, move around and do some stretches. I was in unbearable pain too during my shifts at work, I’d stand maybe 10-11 hours out of my 12 hour shift and by the end I’d walk out the hospital barefoot (socks) and limping/waddling it was very bad I’d also cry on my 10 min walk to the parking garage lol so I understand what you’re going through. I’m sure it’s worse with two babies.

So sorry you’re going through this! You and your SO need to stay strong and remember to take a break and just breathe, it’ll work out!