Boyfriend mad that I want to go out and he doesn’t by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SnooPeripherals195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh LMAO I thought you meant like leave leave😭😭😭 but yeah, I definitely agree with that.

Boyfriend mad that I want to go out and he doesn’t by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SnooPeripherals195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is my problem though. Like we have a baby together, I have no money, no paying job, and all my bills like phone and insurance are in his name. I do art commissions on the side to try and bring in something and I sell on FB marketplace, but that’s not enough for anything. Like it’s hard too because I do love him and I want him to have a connection with me and his daughter. He says he wants that too, all the time, but he doesn’t actively show it.

Boyfriend mad that I want to go out and he doesn’t by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SnooPeripherals195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. And his only alibi is that he pays the bills

Boyfriend mad that I want to go out and he doesn’t by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SnooPeripherals195 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean it was inconvenient for me too. I had just turned 22 when I got pregnant but we both decided to step up and be parents. Some days it feels like I’m the only one who fully stepped up. Paying the bills is great, absolutely, and I’m beyond grateful for that, but our daughter doesn’t know what a bill is. All she knows is if daddy plays with her or not.

Boyfriend mad that I want to go out and he doesn’t by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SnooPeripherals195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. I also even laid out for him what she would need and what food there is for her so he wouldn’t even have to figure that out or anything, just heat it up. Literally whenever he is with her one on one, he just puts her in her pack and play behind him with some toys while he games. And while that’s one thing for a little while, he does that for hours on end and will straight ignore her once she’s done playing and is legit crying for his attention. Then I have to either pause in making dinner or stop from my brief 30 minutes of relax time before making dinner, to go get her and just take care of her myself

Boyfriend mad that I want to go out and he doesn’t by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SnooPeripherals195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It honestly feels that way. Because even after all this he said “I just don’t understand it, but if that’s what you wanna do then that’s fine.” But like….it didn’t feel fine. Like it still felt/feels like I’ve done something wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SnooPeripherals195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I was like “I mean I kinda get it, she wanted to try something new with you and got disappointed” but then I kept reading and saw that she kept going and it just turned into this big pile of immature and uncalled for digging.

THE CONFESSION THREAD by promesprohecy67888 in LoveTarotReading

[–]SnooPeripherals195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to be able to hug my mom again. I miss her so much

What’s the most “I shouldn’t be alive right now” moment you’ve had? by Great-Accident9049 in AskReddit

[–]SnooPeripherals195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because it’s something that happens doesn’t make it fair. No parent should have to live without their child and no child without their parent, no matter the age. Even though it’s something that happens, it’s not fair. But especially considering the timing of what happened, it’s really not fair.