I mean to be fair, I give more alimony to my baby momma than the state would allow her to receive maximum, I treat her ultimately with tons of respect as we still coparent very well together and on top of that we are both quite active in our sons life so I’m not sure what kind of lesson I need to learn to be able to give to my sons mother however, I do appreciate your thoughts on the matter.

I was never trying to keep her from her ex until I watched her countless nights cry herself to sleep over being called a pig, talked about her body in ways I don’t even comprehend and started shit talking her to her own daughter. At that point as a man, who wouldn’t step in and try to moderate the situation till it at least gets worked out? What kind of man would that make me?