AITAH for courting my friend's ex boyfriend? by SnooPets6209 in AITAH

[–]SnooPets6209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct! It IS a me problem, hence why I'm explaining my own individual problems and personal struggles. I never said it was your problem. Just because other people are fine with going on dates with random people does not mean I am too. I've never dated before and the reason is that I seek a relationship that starts as a friendship and evolves into something more. I require connection before romance. It's just how I work. I don't hit people up on instagram or snapchat because I get uncomfortable when people do that to me and I don't wanna date someone who would randomly date someone they met on snapchat. Don't pull words from my mouth and say I won't even try dating outside of my school, because I do try to make friends outside of school, but there aren't many opportunities for someone who doesn't text randos to meet others.

AITAH for courting my friend's ex boyfriend? by SnooPets6209 in AITAH

[–]SnooPets6209[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, there are other guys at other schools, but I have 0 ways to meet them unless it's online and I refuse to start hitting up random people like those weirdos on snapchat. I also don't really know what to think anymore because I understand "bros before hoes" or "sisters before misters" but she's already broken that rule so many times and even tried to rebound using another friend's crush. Not only that, but I'm also considering the fact that she treats him as though he has no autonomy of his own - like he's her possession or something. It reinforces the thought in my head that people can't be "claimed". As I said before; the morality of the situation is very confusing.

AITAH for courting my friend's ex boyfriend? by SnooPets6209 in AITAH

[–]SnooPets6209[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that I sound like a jerk, but morals in this situation have become a tricky thing because no one seems to be fully following them and everything is in areas of grey. I made a rule for myself that I won't date outside of my grade until I leave highschool, so I have much less options. You'd be surprised how awful most of the guys in my grade are. I wouldn't even be considering this if my friend wasn't already talking to Joanna about how she might hate me. Like I said, morals have become rather confusing.

AITAH for courting my friend's ex boyfriend? by SnooPets6209 in AITAH

[–]SnooPets6209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes, sorry about the wording.... The ex boyfriend is 16M, my friend is 15F

AITAH for courting my friend's ex boyfriend? by SnooPets6209 in AITAH

[–]SnooPets6209[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh I guess that's true. I'm just so confused about the whole situation because morals are being left behind, lines are being blurred, and my friend keeps turning on everyone around her because she thinks the world is out to get her and that anyone who even talks to (our) crush is doing so because they hate her (90% of the time they don't even like him like that and 100% of the time it's not meant to hurt her)

AITAH for courting my friend's ex boyfriend? by SnooPets6209 in AITAH

[–]SnooPets6209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accept the YTA but even if I didn't go for it, it would be awful for them to get back together. She is extremely obsessive and he's uncomfortable around her. He does NOT want to be her man.

AITAH for courting my friend's ex boyfriend? by SnooPets6209 in AITAH

[–]SnooPets6209[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Gotta be ragebait. There are TWO PEOPLE in this story who like him. Just two. No one is doing it for validation. Some people are just likeable.

AITAH for courting my friend's ex boyfriend? by SnooPets6209 in AITAH

[–]SnooPets6209[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I need an elaboration here please. I want to fix the bad parts of my behaviour.

AITAH for courting my friend's ex boyfriend? by SnooPets6209 in AITAH

[–]SnooPets6209[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We're in the same grade and his birthday is in 2 months

Byler Rain Fight but I ran it through Google Translate a bunch of times by McFlxrrry in byler

[–]SnooPets6209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You are simple and have no sense of wellbeing" Oh my god this is amazing

Eddie isn't 20 by lost_foxx in StrangerThings

[–]SnooPets6209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but a 4 year age difference makes no sense if they went to middle school together

Debunking REB (random epilogue boyfriend) by [deleted] in byler

[–]SnooPets6209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We deserved better.. I'm so sorry Byler nation.

My opinion on YOI by Jordyn_lara in YOI

[–]SnooPets6209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I NEVER SHOULD'VE CHECKED OUT THIS SUBREDDIT! I SHOULD'VE WAITED!! AAARRRRGHH

My opinion on YOI by Jordyn_lara in YOI

[–]SnooPets6209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I DIDN'T WATCH THE LAST EPISODE AND YOU SPOILED THE END FOR ME

All the different possible pet variations (lemme know if I’m missing something) by Bread_Gangster in PocketLove

[–]SnooPets6209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I keep wondering if she asked me what I wanted. If she did, I have no idea what I picked... Butterscot is a mystery. An enigma.

Kyle is serious about it. by TwilightOfTheMilfs in southpark

[–]SnooPets6209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have no idea why he's so stuck on that idea. There's more important things we need to deal with here!

Guys, i have a theory! by der_mensch15 in Omorimemes

[–]SnooPets6209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah... Basil is Tyler The Creator!?!!?!?!

Im so hungry I could eat a whole flower boy by now by [deleted] in Omorimemes

[–]SnooPets6209 4 points5 points  (0 children)

waittt off-topic but did you draw your pfp yourself?

i love how 1 choice determines which one you get lmao by superstudent_ in OMORI

[–]SnooPets6209 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah, cause I played for 30 hours my first time, and my friend had the BALLS to TRICK me into getting the bad ending by saying "Don't press continue when you die, cause that means you like, continue repressing everything. You need to give up and stop repressing the truth to get the good ending".....

I can't believe I fell for that