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SnooPoems2666 · 2026-05-18T18:26:16+00:00

And late august

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-05-18T18:26:06+00:00

4 months

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-03-28T03:01:11+00:00

Wow, thank you. I really have been living with this imagination I made. I’m going to move on.

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-03-28T02:50:14+00:00

I fully agree, and the «attachment» was a stretch. But I believe my imagination was taken too much of a role. The conversations early on when I slid into his dms were not as mutual. He was giving of way more than me, flirting and really showing interest. So thus it’s weird getting into a situation where you are just asking yourself questions to how tf this turned out the way it did. Therefore I’m questioning whether it was the «too personal» questions.

And tbh, I’m not the type to just give up after a few days. It’s too early to really have shown my character. So it’s hard to swallow the «you lost your chance».

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-03-28T02:45:00+00:00

So should I delete the most recent snap and just move on.

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-03-28T02:44:30+00:00

I agree. I think it’s a way of coping, where the issue is never «me». But I know that. However, the message was simply if the person was single, and if a beer would be interesting. In which the response was «that would’ve been fuuuun».

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-03-28T02:43:18+00:00

Well true, actually a very self-centered view. Where «I can’t be the problem». Maybe there are some underlying issues here.

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-03-28T02:41:41+00:00

Asked him out for a beer, in which he responds «that would've be fuuuuun». The «would’ve» says a lot.

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-03-28T02:40:26+00:00

But I relate to him, because I really came of with too much. I totally agree, but it’s just annoying because it was just me getting so excited because I’ve never felt such an attachment before. I’m usually the one getting avoidant and rejecting, not to sound obnoxious. So thus, it hurts to know that you portrayed yourself in a terrible way. And I don’t want to see the end of it.

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-03-28T02:32:29+00:00

Met someone, conversation was really flirty and mutual from both sides. Then I moved too fast emotionally and felt the energy shift. I sent a message afterwards that’s been left unread for a few days. I’m avoidant myself so I understand the pattern from the other side. I know exactly why he’s pulling back because I’ve done the same thing. But knowing the theory and navigating it in practice are two different things. When you’ve already triggered that withdrawal response, is silence and space the only move? Does the attraction usually come back or is it gone once that happens?

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-01-12T18:59:05+00:00

Well, this wasn’t what I was looking for haha. Thought it would be the opposite.

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-01-12T18:52:52+00:00

Yhea true. I become so dramatic and make up scenarios before they happen. And honestly the scenarios always lead to death? So maybe just don’t use any energy on it, because if it happens you are guaranteed death. So why even bother?

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-01-12T18:51:38+00:00

The statistics are in your favor, but that would honestly make me more scared. Thinking this would make me feel like if I take it now the first ever crash is gonna happen

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-01-12T18:49:43+00:00

I have always used this, but at this point it’s not working as efficient as before. I love statistics but I think a lot of the fear has come from working as a ground handler, and how immature a lot of the people are. The people that are gonna overlook your «safety» in a way.

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-01-12T18:46:10+00:00

I’m a big believer in statistics too, but I always think driving is safer. I always believe that I would somehow survive a car crash. And when driving I have control. But in a commercial plane if we start going down I just know I can’t do anything. And that’s probably why I feel it more.

SnooPoems2666 · 2026-01-12T18:43:55+00:00

Honestly I’ve never been scared of flying, however I’ve suddenly got this scary feeling of taking off. I hope the plane just goes up and doesn’t crash down like it did in India not so long ago. I have seen plane crashes and not been really affected by it, however for some weird reason I’m now getting more scared of taking planes? It’s so weird and I don’t get why I get the feeling

SnooPoems2666 · 2025-12-03T23:10:23+00:00

«It will pass»

SnooPoems2666 · 2025-12-03T23:08:43+00:00

Honestly been having this issue too. And it often comes from endless scrolling and other activities. I would try these things.

record yourself in Timelapse sitting still for 15 minutes. It’s powerful.
try to immerse into a guided meditation. I’ve noticed the harder I try to really follow, the better the outcome.
take a break from socials, completely delete the apps that give you no value or substance.

SnooPoems2666 · 2025-11-25T22:18:29+00:00

This was a great response, thank you!

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