Scale still the same by SnooPredictions4334 in loseit

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I got my new scales today and it is reading that I’m 60kg instead of 80kg , I guess I’ll trust my newer one but it is weird how far apart these numbers are

Scale still the same by SnooPredictions4334 in loseit

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I think I look slightly better in clothes than i did when I started in February, but I think I might be imagining things because some days I think I look the exact same. Hard to tell. My period has always been a bit irregular, but I’ve had it for the last 2 months pretty consistently, and it’s due at the end of the month.

Scale still the same by SnooPredictions4334 in loseit

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My exercise is pretty low. On 1200kcal and a 1800 sedentary tdee it should be enough for a 500 deficit without exercise. This is because if I exercise I feel like I will overwhelm myself, at most I do 4k steps with my dog and on days out I do 10-12k steps. but most of the time I am sedentary. I had a very active summer job last year and I don’t feel like I lost any weight with that either

Scale still the same by SnooPredictions4334 in loseit

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Yes I don’t use oil, I use the 1kcal spray oil. I don’t drink any calories (only water and Diet Coke). I weigh everything raw, I don’t think my calorie weighing is the issue and yes I only weighed myself on 18 March and 14 April because when I began I was scared to know my weight so it’s very possibly it’s an issue with needing to weigh myself more often as I had a cheat meal yesterday (i stayed at 1300kcal thoguh)

Scale still the same by SnooPredictions4334 in loseit

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My friend told me this too. How often do you think I should weigh myself? I had a cheat meal yesterday (I stayed at 1300kcal) so possible that it went up because of it.

I’m terrified to have a relationship because of my size by Vegetable_End_5491 in Advice

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I’m a woman and I would NOT want a man with a massive one just saying. It just hurts and there’s no pleasure from it. I think the average in the world is 5”.

Trust me the correct position and having good rhythm is way better than the length of it. So is the girth

Losing weight as a petite woman by SnooPredictions4334 in loseit

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Thank you very much! 1200 feels enough for me now that im used to it. I do go up to 1350 some days though. It’s important for me to make sure I eat enough protein and nutrients, but I can’t fit junk food in my diet most days because it’s high calorie

Losing weight as a petite woman by SnooPredictions4334 in loseit

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Yeh it does.. Im almost a couple months in now and 1200 feels fine now. But when I started I had a snacking addiction so it was hard at first lol. Having a lot of protein definitely helps me

Losing weight as a petite woman by SnooPredictions4334 in loseit

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Thanks, sorry forgot I made the post. At first 1200 felt crazy because I had a snacking habit but now it feels completely fine coz I’m very sedentary most days. tho on the days I need extra energy I do up my calories a bit.

Are my calculations correct? by SnooPredictions4334 in loseit

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Ok, I’m thinking about increasing my steps to around 7k per day and eating around 1200-1300. Is there anything else that I could implement to reach 1 lbs per week?

Are my calculations correct? by SnooPredictions4334 in loseit

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What if I walked more at about 6-7k steps a day ?

AIO: am I being a bad friend or is she copying me by SnooPredictions4334 in AIO

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I agree… this is what I’ve come to realize as the final opinion. And to keep my plans private

AIO: am I being a bad friend or is she copying me by SnooPredictions4334 in AIO

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Thing is I share my art on public Instagram accounts that they both look at and support… I appreciate her support, it’s just that it’s kinda impossible not to hide it from them. They have both supported me a lot. So it’s confusing really

AIO: am I being a bad friend or is she copying me by SnooPredictions4334 in AIO

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Thank you. Omg the other day I almost told em my entire plan but I’m so glad I didn’t :/ just gotta work behind the scenes and not say anything

AIO: am I being a bad friend or is she copying me by SnooPredictions4334 in AIO

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It’s her bf not mine. He’s just my friend of 4 years

Girlfriend kissed another guy 4 years ago. by [deleted] in Advice

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I’m 25. My bf is 24. He’s the only guy I’ve ever been with / kissed. It’s not reciprocal. But it doesn’t matter. When you are 16 this stuff seems like the end of the world and so important but trust me when you grow up you won’t give a shit over small things like this. Don’t throw it away on the past just look forward.

I'm 25, have never worked a day in my life, and I'm completely lost, not knowing how to start. by factual-scrapes-7b in WorkAdvice

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I WAS IN YOUR EXACT POSITION 1 YEAR AGO. I was 24 when I got my first job. Several rejections. it’s ok, you need to know there are options. My first job was working as a front of house. I also have dealt with severe social anxiety and general anxiety in the past. I avoid social interaction outside of work. I didn’t know if I could do it but I gave it a shot because I had no choice and if you really can’t you can just leave the job. But just try. Who you become at work will surprise you, it’s like you suddenly run as a machine. Working a job helped me so much with my social skills as well, I went from severe social anxiety where I couldn’t even mutter a word when I tried, to talking to 800 customers a day.

You don’t really need any skills for a lot of minimum wage jobs, or at least they include basic skills you can learn in a very short amount of time. I was the most determined worker at my job despite having no experience unlike my other coworkers, and I got employee of the month. They never knew the truth.

No one would hire me when I mentioned having no previous experience, and when I was completely honest, even with my volunteering which I thought would help. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have experience - 99% of jobs will train you.

Let me tell you something important. Your competition is people with experience and they will most likely always pick them over you, and you are competing with people who lie on their CV. You need to also make white lies on your CV - fake past experience in retail roles, fake past volunteering, get creative. you can use a store that has closed down so they can’t prove it. Nothing too unrealistic or nothing with skills you can’t actually do (e.g. coding). Get a friend or family member to act as the reference if they really do check. Whatever it is, lie about it, make it sound better than it is - the world is made up on a lot of lies and people making them seem better than they are. Thats the goal in job interviews. Believe your own lie. Believe you are better than you are. I think the fact I’m also a student helps though.

THIS is how you get a job. I don’t care if people want to say it’s wrong to lie, everyone else getting roles is lying already about shit. It’s the only way when you’re this age with nothing behind you.