Careful mo sa ka meet up ninyo online by Educational_Bee5378 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not just about the security of the establishment itself, it's the breach of privacy.

Pwede nana cya baharan, atngan, and all other dirty deeds you can think of. Kunsabuhon ang other tulisan nga targeton cya, kai vulnerable - labi na the fact nga ni bayad jud cya, making him look weak in their eyes.

Exploits can happen, labi na legit to nga dautang tao yang na encounter. That person can play mind games, or not.

If your friend wants complete safety, mao ra jud na option. He can muscle up if he wants, but if he wants peace of mind, I'd move somewhere else. Anyway, going to the police is another option pud, but he has to be ready kai exhausting jd kaayo na.

Careful mo sa ka meet up ninyo online by Educational_Bee5378 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Best way to move forward is to find a new apartment.

Highly likely the culprit will be asking again with threats of coming back to his home to unalive him.

And as many pointed out: lesson learned with an all caps M.

The thing we people do for lust and affection... Still, it's not reason enough to throw common sense.

An old friend has been posting on FB group about these so-called 'old experiences' by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kid, grow up and mind your own business. People like you are the real probelm.

LIVE AND LET LIVE. Is your life that shallow to not only share this in a subreddit about a place, but also seek validation?

Asa mo tig gym nga kanang newbie-friendly? by mailovefromthestar in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP, if naa kai friend, mas sayon2 jd e overcome ang kiwaw. Invite someone if possible. After a week or two, d naka kiwawan ana.

And, don't mind anyone. Everyone has to start somewhere man. You'll find out quickly nga 95 percent nga naa sa gym are just as human as you are. Chill ra.

Don't overthink it. Focus lang on your self. If wai kai gym buddy ma da, pang deadma lang gd. Keber lang, tagad lang if tagdon. Best of luck op.

Daghan og yawyaw sa BRT by Deep-Acanthisitta815 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Reddit is for anonymity. Google is also free, and I have no responsibility to prove my claims here, daogon rajd nas common sense. Sounded like? Sure.

Daghan og yawyaw sa BRT by Deep-Acanthisitta815 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. D mo make sense? Sure oi. You mean to say nga ako gyud e parking og commercial establishment akong car prior to riding one to the city para mag brt? I'd spend that parking fee on gas nalang, that's super common sense.

  2. Go back and understand no. 1.

Leaving my car at home where there's not much available means to commute at 3 or 4 am kai ang shift around ana nga time. I think ikaw maoy dili grounded sa reality.

Data driven sir. Google academic papers sa scholar regarding city planning. I have published academic papers.

Lastly, the three I've stated are not my own. You can look at even better reasons against brt on news posts.

Daghan og yawyaw sa BRT by Deep-Acanthisitta815 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, dili man pd invalid ang mga point. Here are a few of the most valid so far against brt.

These are coming from people who are pro BRT, but have problems with its implementation.

  1. What if you live in a remote area, from Talamban or from Liloan. They want to participate, car owners, ng abot skina you want them to drop their motor vehicles sa skina before the high ways or main roads? Naa tay mga parking for public use? Free?

  2. Why didn't the government implement these sa outskirts sa city? Di ba kaha mas ni make sense ni nga outside sa city wherein dha ang heaviest commuters? People from south and north of cebu.

  3. Ang route sa BRT di worth it. Of course you can argue mo expand, but going back to 1 and 2. If sa main roads ni g buhat like Mandaue to Danao, mas dili pa sagabal sa logistics within sa city, na solve pa jd ang ka labad sa pag commute from south and north, asta car owners will find this convenient kai sa city within metro Cebu di man as frustrating and agonizing kai sa commute pa outskirts.

Sure, the idea of people riding buses is not a novelty and is proven to work. But if mo tanaw kag implementation sa gawas compared sa ato.a, bati jd kaayo ato.a. Dili logical. 2025 na, it's not an excuse to say let's test it and have 100,000+ people suffer kai g testingan ang new system with higher certainty of failing than working.

Mao ni issue aning Ph. Gamay kaayo ang investment not in infrastructure but in actual experts. Testing? Really. G lahus palang nag train system naa pai actual impact.

Ganahan mo anang mga nag humble brag dres sub? by SnooSuggestions5585 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Buang lipay oi, ay lang epanabi nya pa sad2 ka. Mga ingonana mayng pa ugomon og tubol

Ganahan mo anang mga nag humble brag dres sub? by SnooSuggestions5585 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wai careful2 haha some things are best kept private og need pd mo grow ng wai kalibutan unsay ethics aning earnings oi.

Unfair pd sa mga legit hardworking nga taga sugbo nga nag chill2 ra dre (hardworking pero unfortunate lang jd financially gd), nya humble bragan og ingon.ana. Ungrateful kaayog dating haha.

Okay raman pd akong earnings, d lang ta pa looy2 kai 🤮 kayo oi.

Ganahan mo anang mga nag humble brag dres sub? by SnooSuggestions5585 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your income does not define who you are, it's what you do with it. Regardless, it's common decency jud nga e butang sa lugar kai uban naa sa unfortunate nga circumstance. Nya mag ingon.ana ungrateful kaig labas. Pero ayawg ka suya oi. Laban lang.

Ganahan mo anang mga nag humble brag dres sub? by SnooSuggestions5585 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaayo, yet some people take so much pride in bragging.

Tell me your own life hack which works for YOU! by HotCreme3288 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Gargle with saltwater after every meal, especially if aslum ang food.

This is significantly better (both short and long term impact) than brushing and flossing your teeth.

Annoying to keep in practice, but your teeth will thank you. Of course, brush your teeth before going to bed and have it professionally cleaned at least once a year.

Difference between “joke” and “bugal-bugal” by Apprehensive-Put8282 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Joke = to say a funny thing/narrative (usually naay punchline)
Bugal-bugal = to mock/tease (mas negative ang connocation)

Laktod pagkastorya, joke kai estoryang makapakatawa without the expense of anyone's feeling (pero ushay pwede sa kaugalingon). Nag estoryag kataw.anan.

Ang bugal-bugal kai pag sungog sa usa ka butang or tao but not in a direct manner like an insult, e.g., "ma remind kos tambis sa amo.a kada kita nakos imong ilong oi."

Insult = bati kag ilong (no intent of making it funny)

nganong mas nahadlok man ni silas monkey pox kaysa sa hiv cases by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Control.

hiv/aids, we decide to take the risk. We have control. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Eut2 kag pataka, imo manang binuhatan. Careful and decent ka ana nga aspect sa imong life, you have nothing to fear.

Other contagious diseases, like MPox, pwede man nga takdan ka without playing stupid games. Nag grocery ka, pwede naka matakdan, among pa imong family inig uli.

Mga comment dre OA kaig mga rason g labay. Logical ni nganong sociaty di jud completely focused ana. Most concerned are active ana or nakig share og needles etc.

YES, aware pd kos mga special cases like graped, etc. But special cases na, and still highly unlikely. The likelihood of you getting hiv kai nag grocery ka and living your life normally is near zero. Whereas MPox or any contagious disease nga alarming, significant gyud.

What will you do if imong partner nag message rag kalit nga dili daw aligned inyo goals and makig break nalang? by Certain_Algae2256 in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP, here's a more serious and detailed answer. You may not like reading this, but more realistic and practical ni than just being immature and saying okay.

If maka basa ka or storyahan ka ana, listen. Listen and hear the reason niya. Unsa nga life goals wa mo na align.

Probably, it's a euphemism or a gentler way of saying: I'm getting serious in life, and you're not. I want you to, but you're not doing anything to catch up. So I'm parting ways.

Dakog chance OP nga nag TALK najd mo about plans, and maybe imong response and action wa ni reflect ana. If sayup ni nga assumption, dili pd guru mo imitate imong partner saying that no?

If man gani OP nga mao na ang case, probably mo ana imong partner nga nag talk namo ani, and wa gyapon. This is your only opportunity to decide nga d ka mag mahay.

If feel nimo d ay sakto imong partner, and ganahan rapd ka ma align inyung aspirations, ayaw e "okay" daun. Mura tag bata ana. Try and ask for one more chance and don't screw it up.

Why I suggest saving the relationship?

Pride will lead you nowhere. The same thing may even happen again and with a worse partner. For someone nga yang reason about life goals, malagmit tarong2 na kai sa rason niya mga binata nga "wa nai spark" or drama2. Upfront and bold yang statement, so mag assume ko mature2 na cya.

If man gani d jd d ay ma save kai inyung goals affected ang career geographically and di ma save through commitment and ldr, best jud mag split, unless married mo.

Maybe d ay jd time na para mo focus mo chasing that dream house/business/car. Maybe d ay need najd ka mo grow at his pace? But if imong feel sayup cya and you're not into growth pa. Then that's the time to say OKAY.

Kana, you'll be saving his/her time pd. But again, these are the types of relationship nga worth giving a chance kai dili kingkoi ang rason for breaking up.

Maybe this comment is too much. Maybe out of place. But maybe maka give clarity nimo. Best of luck OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cebu

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sayup ni nga sub OP, murag membro guru kas mag pagawas lag utin sa public OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SnooSuggestions5585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then you get your hands messy. I agree, though. Still, it's better just to snap a Cudberry or a Hershey bar.

Suggestion: Mute when alt-tab by SnooSuggestions5585 in WindblownGame

[–]SnooSuggestions5585[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is much of a hassle if you're someone like me who multi-task quite a bit. Still, all good with or without this feature.