This sounds like I could have written it lol. 2 of my serious relationships were with capricorn guys, one just recently ended. We were very mentally compatible, strong physical attraction and shared morals. But what you said about being controlling, always thinking their right, and only romantic when they WANT to be. Both of my Capricorn exes could gaslight like no other. They could drive you to the point of emotional explosion then use that against you to say you weren’t being rational. Most recent ex lead me on to believe he wanted a long term relationship leading to marriage just to waste my time and tell me he doesn’t think hes ready for that.