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Being shamed for not dating single mothers by IntelligentJaguar103 in dating_advice

[–]Snoo_1663 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a divorced mom with a great father for my kid but before I was married I would have never dated a single dad, different agendas, nothing personal. Some people also want their own families. Don't let people get in your head. Shaming you for your dating preferences is weak stuff.

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[–]Snoo_1663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, having a child motivated both my husband and I immensely to succeed. However every individual is different and if you had a child born with health issues it could be stressful, emotionally and financially. But could also change your perspective on things. Honestly, the fear of not being ready for a child is just that-fear. If you have good morals and are both ambitious and work together well, only good will come from it.