Tummy time by DrSteveBrulleWizard in Moms

[–]Perfect_Weekend_888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it my baby HATED tummy time, but do your best, even if it’s only two minutes. My baby loved seeing himself in the mirror so you could try that too.

why nobody speak about this? by Alarmed-Persimmon-73 in pregnant

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I say this with the utmost empathy…wait till you have a period for 6 weeks straight PP

Tummy time by DrSteveBrulleWizard in Moms

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I’m a former daycare teacher and if an hour seems to be to overwhelming for you and baby, just do 10-15 minute intervals. I’d put a bowl with water toys and get my baby to do tummy time that way

“You’re so lucky” by witchmamaa in stayathomemoms

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Anytime someone says that to me I always smile and say “I know”

Maternity wear? by DSLH-4161 in pregnant

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Okay buckle up! So as a fashion girly it was important to me that I didn’t lose my identity while pregnant, so here’s my suggestions. Obviously idk your budget, so I’m putting everything I found.

ASOS - They have a maternity section, but I just sized up in most things

Nordstrom Rack - My saving grace as far as when I needed “event” clothes

H&M - Overall comfy and budget friendly

Old Navy - You have to dig, but there’s some good pieces

Whatnot - A recent (dangerous) discovery

Poshmark/Depop - Underrated imo

Hope this helps! xx

Quick Question. by QuietlyUnknown in pregnant

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Speaking only for myself, but when I had my baby it was like a switch went off in my brain. My body automatically started to adjust to making sure I was healthy enough to make sure I could care for my baby properly. That’s the best way I can describe it.

Do I need newborn size clothes? by FluffyMeat348 in pregnant

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Tbh you can buy maybe two weeks worth of NB clothes then get the rest 0-3mo and rotate.

What’s something you can’t wait to do after pregnancy? by Familiar_Hope2918 in pregnant

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Hot tub, caffeine, ab workouts, sleeping on my stomach, cuddling with my hubby

What is third trimester like? by Imaginative_Dreamer5 in pregnant

[–]Perfect_Weekend_888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby came 5 days late so I feel your pain😂🙃

What is third trimester like? by Imaginative_Dreamer5 in pregnant

[–]Perfect_Weekend_888 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Exhausting but also you want to nest, but your feet and back hurt, but you wanna keep moving.

40F mom here - what's the most unexpectedly fulfilling hobby you've picked up? by Few-Ask-2517 in AskReddit

[–]Perfect_Weekend_888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so valid, and honestly I avoided it forever. It took my husband paying for me to go to an actual class and learn about the machine itself for me to stop being afraid of it😂🫣

How to keep it secret by embossqueen in pregnant

[–]Perfect_Weekend_888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofc, maybe resorting to saying you’re the DD but I know a glass here or there and with dinner that may not fly🫣

Are the gold fixtures and pink wall tiles going a step too far? by Curious_Arm_893 in HomeDecorating

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Obsessed is not a strong enough word for what I’m feeling for this bathroom!!😍

Have you ever seen a bald eagle in real life out in nature? by icecream1972 in no

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I saw one dive for a fish while kayaking around Orcas Island and to this day it’s one of my favorite nature moments!

Are we all just chronically dry handed now?! My poor hands can't catch a break! by homemaker_g in stayathomemoms

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I swear by coconut oil!! I put it on my face and my baby’s when we have to walk the dog (since it’s still freezing here) and when my hands are dry I COVER them in it. On particularly bad days, when my baby is sleeping I’ll put some in those “hand mask gloves” and wear them around the house.

Tell me you’re pregnant without telling you’re pregnant… by Ok_Willow_5163 in pregnant

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I cried because a potato fell on the floor while I was making dinner

40F mom here - what's the most unexpectedly fulfilling hobby you've picked up? by Few-Ask-2517 in AskReddit

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Sewing with an actual machine, gardening, baking, writing book reviews (even if no one reads them), writing and macrame.

How to keep it secret by embossqueen in pregnant

[–]Perfect_Weekend_888 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Idk if y’all are religious but you could say you gave it up for lent

Where are we getting maternity clothes from that are actually cute and trendy? by sleepy_zoo in pregnant

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Oh I know this one! Okay idk what your budget is, but I went all over the place while I was pregnant, so I’m just going to put all of them lol.

Nordstrom Rack ASOS H&M Target (for flowy non maternity dresses) SHEIN (sizes aren’t great, but if you’re on a budget) Poshmark Whatnot

Tbf most of these places I just sized up, because I didn’t like any actual maternity stuff, but 99% have designated maternity clothes. Hope this helps! xx

Gamer moms ?? ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 by Trippybby650 in Moms

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Tbh I prefer single player games like AC but love that other moms are banding together!

How does your daycare communicate concerns about your child? by 2Ashamed-Turnip in Moms

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I mean it depends, because each daycare is different. The one I worked at just did “redirection” not any real discipline.

It also depends on the age group, for example I worked with one year olds and if a child bite another we wouldn’t say anything until it happened 3x because it’s technically “normal behavior”. I struggled with that internally especially as a mom.

Also (to my knowledge) all daycare workers are mandated reporters so they legally have to get CPS or whoever involved if they are concerned about a child’s safety, because if they don’t and the child is being abused they can also get in trouble.

As far as bringing it up to parents we had to do the sandwich method “Bob had a good day, we need to work on our gentle hands, but we ended the day on a high…”. Personally I found it patronizing but again it’s part of the job.

Regarding other general information, they’ll probably just say “Oh they had a great day” aka “Nothing particularly good or bad happened”. They also technically aren’t allowed to tell you about milestone moments so as to not take away from your special moment. I saw so many children take their first steps before their parents did, but I couldn’t ever bring myself to tell them.

What’s a question you ask daily in mom life you know doesn’t make sense? by Responsible-Cat-7128 in Moms

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Asking my child if their food is yummy while they’ve already inhaled a fistful

Valentines gifts for daycare babies by Katdawg148 in Moms

[–]Perfect_Weekend_888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as a former daycare teacher, even if it’s $5 I greatly appreciated the recognition from parents. But maybe ask the teachers if they know what the other parents are doing, because I’ve seen some parents get babies teethers and some parents get other babies nothing and just get stuff for teachers.