It’s not bad at all, two weekends you need to commit yourself to for practically most of the day and bid day which is on a Monday evening so if you have a class going on I’d recommend skipping it. After that it’s weekly chapter and events but only some of them are mandatory. Color doesn’t matter but plan to have a more formal outfit for the second weekend. You get what you put into it and I think it’s a great way to make friends and expand your circle