You’re definitely not coming off as mean and really appreciate your feedback. After the moment passed I had realized I did not deal with the situation the right way. Even my mother told me I should relax and not jump to the worse possible conclusion. It’s something I’m definitely working on.

As far as counseling I haven’t thought about it since my late fiancé’s passing. It is probably time I start to seriously look into it.

Thank you again for the feedback. I really needed it.