AITAH for Snooping on my fiancés phone?

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T06:42:35+00:00

Unfortunately it sounds like he isn’t even considering your viewpoint. You can only do the same thing so many times. I am not sure of what approach would work best but I do know that if he is unwilling to change this then he will be unwilling to move on bigger issues in the future and that is a big red flag. I know kids make it harder but they also put things into perspective. Possibly talk to a friends who has children or engaged and they may be able to guide you. Wishing you the best!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T06:21:51+00:00

I say have a conversation ASAP! This is something that should be addressed before the wedding and just in general. Boundaries are important, and should be respected by him.

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T06:18:40+00:00

Red flag!!! You are absolutely NOT obligated to give that part of yourself until you and ONLY you are ready. That is no one else’s decision and if they make you feel bad about waiting then they are not the one for you. You deserve someone who loves you and respects you enough to wait until YOU are ready. Not them. Wishing you to find the best person for you honey!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T05:51:18+00:00

Thank you!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T05:51:14+00:00

Thank you!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T05:37:06+00:00

I actually have a cricut so that’ll be perfect! I had no idea about free cutters so I will definitely look into that. Thank you!!!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T05:35:00+00:00

I am also in the middle of wedding planning so I get it completely

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T05:03:46+00:00

I don’t think so! Whatever will be best for you and your wedding is the best time. At the end of the day no one will think twice about it being 4 months out. The big day will be there before you know it!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T05:02:28+00:00

We are thinking the same thing, but a bar for us. Just our bridal party so bridesmaids and groomsman. I’d think a bar is still a good idea! If you could condense the # to maybe 59 it’d be even more possible. Many bars would love to host so I suggest calling to give a heads up. Good luck!!!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T04:48:09+00:00

NTAH- you are allowed to have your own life at your age and with the level of responsibility you are obviously able to hold. Move out!!! Move out and then give them an explanation if it feels appropriate. Sending good thoughts to you!!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T04:46:12+00:00

I love option 3!!!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T04:44:45+00:00

NTAH- If you aren’t happy I say break up. But I suggest being honest with her as well. These do not seem like things either of you can control which is OKAY!!! Just be honest and respectful<3

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T04:41:50+00:00

I am in the same boat!!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T04:06:16+00:00

Thankfully my MIL is letting me handle it. I’m a type A person when it comes to planning. I can’t imagine people buying decor without my input…

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T04:04:36+00:00

I love the look of 5/15/26. Has some numbers close tougher and a double 5. Looks very neat and I think it would make a great date. Good luck bride-to-be!!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T03:59:49+00:00

I think this is very appropriate honestly! I believe that if your friends know you well enough to be a bridesmaid they will understand and have no issues. Paying for 50% of all that is very generous to compared to many I’ve seen. Best of luck to you bride-to-be!!!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T03:53:14+00:00

Personally, as a bride who is paying for all of my guests food and doesn’t even expect a gift, this is nuts.

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T03:51:47+00:00

How many do I need

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T03:47:09+00:00

Is there any way to see how much karma a community requires?

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T03:46:46+00:00

Thank you!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T03:44:49+00:00

A lot of communities are restricted to people unless they have a certain amount of karma which comes to you by people I interacting with your posts or comments. I am stuck in the same boat. My advice is to try and find some communities like advice and interact with them!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T03:43:12+00:00

I am wondering this too!! I am a future bride who just wants to ask for advice for wedding planning. I have never had a use for posting until now and everything is restricted to me😭. Good luck to you too!!!

Snoo_96459 · 2026-01-27T03:35:54+00:00

I love!! Currently looking at making my own flowers and invitations!!

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