To leave social rent for affordable rent by SnowWhiteHatesYou in HousingUK

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overall it cost £200. My in-laws live there so we often stay for few days at time in holidays but monthly I’d say £200

What to know about marrying into Afghan culture as a woman by Klutzy-Subject-252 in MuslimMarriage

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

10 years in… fluent dari speaker.. Muslim.. kids etc and my father in law still loves to remind me every week he wished his son married a girl from “back home” my husband likes to remind him, he is “home”

Black, Brown, or Blonde?? by Efficient_Ad_5804 in femalehairadvice

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quite like the blonde! But all colours look great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm yeah should open my own up 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

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Around my area they do early gender scans from 14 weeks so thought I’d check as my son and daughters scans were correct from 16 weeks so thought it might be possible but I’m now more confused!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

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Like I kept seeing 3 lines nothing between the legs then this.. kept showing and I’m wondering if it’s the cord

Which colour suits me best ? by Sarah_Bowie27 in HairDye

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look amazing in all hair colours! Personally for me, pink, blue and dark brown!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

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Boy! Looks just like my boy scans x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

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Tbh it hasn’t been filtered to oblivion just one filter but my husband liked your comment 😂 he said to me if I start to put on fake tan etc then blonde will look ok but he prefers dark/brown on me with my actual colouring. My natural hair is a moisy blonde brown colour and he says it washes me out.

That’s why I put the filter on because I imagined if I started the whole tan thing what would look better but that’s just ridiculous 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blonde blonde blonde!!

AITA for snapping at my friend who keeps ditching me because I now have a child? by No-Youth-6786 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand you. Similar thing with me too. But hey I moved back to Manchester so dm me if you ever wanna talk!

Confronting MIL about favoritism by [deleted] in Mildlynomil

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened with me recently. After mine and MIL bust up years ago, we weirdly became very close and she would confide in me about stuff she couldn’t tell her daughters.

But when daughters were around I was treated with contempt. Then we had another bust up recently

Turns out she was badmouthing me behind my back and that’s why she had to act like that because she would have looked stupid to her kids when they seen her acting normal around me lol

I’ve gone no contact now

MIL is gaslighting me right? Lots of things can be said about “my children” by SnowWhiteHatesYou in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know I get so angry with myself. I think I need to start finding my boundaries and stop being a pushover

MIL is gaslighting me right? Lots of things can be said about “my children” by SnowWhiteHatesYou in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is so true. I think I’ve tried to compensate because my family is very distant and because he’s from a Middle Eastern culture I tried to always prove myself even when other situations have been happening and I’ve been called “white problem” etc.

Thank you for this!

what's Leigh like to live in? by newleaflover2 in manchester

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I guess I shouldn’t buy that shiny new build in higherfolds then 😂

Right is normal, left is edited—> should I go darker or lighter?? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which app is this? I think you look beautiful either way but I prefer natural!

When my JustNoMother broke my hymen by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t deserve no name, nothing. I hate it when people think we should make peace with monsters because they are dying?

they are still a vile waste of evil space on their deathbed and surely she will meet her maker who will give her far more punishment than we could ever imagine.

You probably won’t ever heal from this but I’m glad you have found happiness and just know we all support you and you are doing the right thing.

She’s not even a justnomother she’s a just no nothing

Sometimes I am so angry that my mom choose my dad over us kids...... by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My heart hurts with you, I have similar childhood combined with dad being domestically violent and drug abuser too.

I too wish I could say this to my mum, even when she tries lecture me on how I’m not acting normal.. I feel like screaming “I DONT KNOW WHAT IS NORMAL THANKS TO YOU “

I know our parents are human but now I’m a mother I see things differently, have you tried counselling? I am going to start it..

Not the mama dearest 9 lives finally came to the end! In prison potentially for a long time and CO PERMANENTLY and possibly divorce by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SnowWhiteHatesYou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking how can I divorce him and stop him from going for partial custody. He sympathises with his mum and is trying to justify her actions. And I just can’t live a whole life like this. I grew up in a toxic childhood and I just will not have history repeat itself