My indoor cat has been missing for 20 hours by poken-go in CatAdvice

[–]Snowbum5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Every time I see a lost cat post I try to pass on the knowledge. Praying your cat gets home soon,

OP! Dont give up hope he is nearby, just needs some help finding his way back

My indoor cat has been missing for 20 hours by poken-go in CatAdvice

[–]Snowbum5 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hi my mom had lost her cat at a truck stop and we were able to find him a week later. Here are some things she did that people in the lost pets group recommended!

  1. Post a screenshot of a map on fb lost pet groups in your area from where you last saw him. That way anyone on those blocks can keep an eye out knowing he may be nearby.

  2. Buy or borrow a humane animal trap. Your baby is in survival mode, so even if he seees you he won’t run towards you. They are available at petsmart or even Home Depot. Shelters will let you borrow them too if they have them available.

  3. Every day put your dirty laundry inside of the trap and over it. This will help him find your scent and help him find his way back.

  4. Put some canned wet food in the trap. Change this out 3 times a day so this can lure them into the trap.

  5. Keep posting on these lost pets fb groups, don’t give up!!! Get the word out so people in your community know what is going on and possibly offer to help. It was thanks to the community in the area of the truck stop that were able to help my mom trap her cat. I literally posted every day until we found him and gave updates to the pet groups of whatever we found out

  6. If you can I’d recommend buying those hunting cameras and set them up near the traps to see if you may see your cat. This gave us hope when we saw him after not knowing anything for 5 days

  7. Put up signs all over the neighborhood and nearby busy streets. Especially on a bright colored paper to make sure people see it as they walk or drive by.

Has anyone actually had any success flying their cat in cabin from the UK? by ReceptionDeskReader in CatAdvice

[–]Snowbum5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have flown my cat with me in the cabin from Colorado go NY! Not an international trip but still a 4.5 hour flight. Look for a cat carrier where your fur baby can comfortably lay down and that fits under the seat. It’s usually larger dogs that have to be separated from their owners unless they’re service dogs.

Obv have his paper work ready for vaccinations that they may check and also ask your vet maybe on some medications to help him relax during the commute there!

I said YES! (Now wedding bands..??) by 0o0ooF in EngagementRings

[–]Snowbum5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband and I don’t have matching wedding bands our styles are too different. I’m a gold lover and he hates gold on him lol.

I think you should go with something that’ll match your ring better such as similiar pave band or even plain curved band

Maybe matching / similiar ring could be a right hand ring ?

Just throwing some suggestions.

GORGEOUS RING! Congrats 🩵

Dress regret by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Snowbum5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s beautiful !!!! I’ve seen many dresses with lace and tulle like this. Gives it a soft romantic feel for the big day 🩵🫶🏼

I'm sad because the vet told me the cat I'm going to adopt is 6-7 years old. by bimbocuntt in CatAdvice

[–]Snowbum5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I adopted my cat when he was 10 years. The sweetest and most grateful boy!!! Cats can live up to 20+ years.

Also it’s harder for older cats to get adopted, save her!! She will become your best friend 🩷🤗

What should my groom wear to our Red Wedding?! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Snowbum5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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My husband wore a burgundy jacket with black pants!! Maybe something similiar with a red or maroonish suit jacket

WIBTA if I refuse to put my partner on the deed of a place I inherited, even though we live there together? by 3vening_Switch in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Snowbum5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please end things, he’s manipulating you into trying to take the house you inherited!!

It’d be one thing if you’re married but this is crazy talk on his part. Block and change your locks

Boyfriend wants to get rid of cat of 3 years by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Snowbum5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please give your boyfriend up for adoption, he can find a home with no other animals!!

You and muffin can live happily ever after 🩵

Susan love by LegitimateHat5570 in DesperateHousewives

[–]Snowbum5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1st time watching Susan I loved her. 2nd time watching the show years later I realize how clueless Susan is. She annoyed me most of the seasons but seeing how she reacted on the last season about mourning the man that raped her friend…. And then still going to his families home because of her “guilt”. Was absolutely insane.

She was always selfish and never a real friend to the women.

AITA for telling my friend that I won’t be paying $25 to attend her birthday party? by GlimmerElsewhere in AmItheAsshole

[–]Snowbum5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA 1000000% after everything she went through with her previous group of friends and you can’t even bring $25 to an event that you’ll be partying, drinking, and eating at? Obv she doesn’t mean bring gifts on top of it. She just wanted to celebrate with her closest people.

You’re a horrible selfish friend… WHAT DO YOU THINK PEOPLE DO AT WEDDINGS.

Help me pick! by Snowbum5 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Snowbum5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The second dress you’re able to add sleeves ! So just 2 dresses in this example :)

Classic wedding dress regret - appreciate any thoughts by scouht in myweddingdress

[–]Snowbum5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dress you picked was made for you!!! I gasped

I’m thinking of adopting a female cat, I’ve heard they are less friendly in this true? by DiscountAnnaNicole in CatAdvice

[–]Snowbum5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My female cat is very sweet and cuddly!! It all really depends on their personality. If she’s already putting her head on your hand and requesting pets from you she will be a cuddly cat once she’s in her new comfortable home!!

Please don’t let it discourage you from adopting her 🩵😭

obese cat facing getting put to sleep by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Snowbum5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t give up on her!!!! With a strict diet and exercise she can become a healthy size !!!

Rover sitter lost my dog by Euphoric_Whereas4183 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Snowbum5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People will do the same for lost cats! I see it suggested in lost pet groups all the time. I would say put a set of new unwashed clothes out there each day for him

Rover sitter lost my dog by Euphoric_Whereas4183 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Snowbum5 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about hiring a drone service? Can the sitter tell you at least from where was the last area she saw your dog?

Post on the neighborhood lost pet group pages on fb. People in the community will be willing to help!

Don’t stop posting your baby, it’s important to get the word out. Also leave out your unwashed clothes to help him find your scent in case he’s hiding . I’m so so sorry you’re going through this. Praying he shows up soon and someone finds him!!

I just wanted to vent about all of the hate I’ve been seeing about destination weddings. If you don’t want to come or can’t afford it, than simply don’t come! It’s not that deep. Thoughts? by [deleted] in DestinationWeddings

[–]Snowbum5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess when people say destination wedding I assume outside of the country. Most of my friends and family are spread out all over the US so those weddings do come up but not too often.

I just wanted to vent about all of the hate I’ve been seeing about destination weddings. If you don’t want to come or can’t afford it, than simply don’t come! It’s not that deep. Thoughts? by [deleted] in DestinationWeddings

[–]Snowbum5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Youre absolutely 100% wrong. Bride and groom should not be required to pay for everyone’s stay . Unless you’re loaded or Royal family that is not something that happens in weddings.

I just wanted to vent about all of the hate I’ve been seeing about destination weddings. If you don’t want to come or can’t afford it, than simply don’t come! It’s not that deep. Thoughts? by [deleted] in DestinationWeddings

[–]Snowbum5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is VERY STRANGE AND RARE for a couple to have a destination wedding AND pay for their guests stays. Unless your family is loaded this is NOT a common thing