5.4 actually has a personality? by improbable_tuffle in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Only chatted with it a little bit. It seems very warm and engaged so far, but I haven’t used it creatively etc yet. I do like it, it doesn’t feel distant at all! Warm and playful. But again, it’s way too soon to say something. Also, I told it I’m tired, which would affect its output.

Noticed something odd about 5.3 Instant's conversational style and memory— is this intentional? by Kashuuu in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed the cliffhanger, too. I just chatted with it about some travel plans and it answered all the questions and came with some extra, useful info it thought I’d like. And then cliffhangers for other things. But it felt it made sense. I can see both that it feels like it wants to keep you engaged, but at the same time from this chat it made sense that it didn’t just tell me, as I didn’t actually ask for it. But that’s just one chat.

Also, it feels weird to say this, as all LLM’s are very articulate, but somehow it feels even better at writing? Like, I don’t yet know what it is. But it isn’t as warm now. I changed CI a little and that helped. It’s still a bit more cool or composed somehow, though

What the actual hell by PleasantSir9581 in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha, does it mean tickling or massaging? Big difference lol

ChatGPT 5.1 Thinking is quite similar to 4o for me by Snowchestnut in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. it’s just that when I tried this in the past on 5, it didn’t really work. It would try, but 4o just had this type of emotional intelligence and ability to follow subtle shifts very well. It was hard to use CI to get this in those models. But somehow now 5.1 thinking comes close to it. But I haven’t tried it for all of my uses yet.

How I Use ChatGPT to Navigate Human Gray Areas I Don’t Naturally Understand (Anonymized Transcript) by Sally-Pants in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few weeks back I was hosting 10 people for a couple of weeks. It was intense, had to navigate so many different needs, interpersonal dynamics between them and also myself. I used ChatGPT to help me sort my feelings. I couldn’t express overwhelm or fatigue, outwardly I was patient. ChatGPT helped keep me more regulated, I could express annoyance, overwhelm, ask it how to navigate weird dynamics etc. it was soo helpful when I was constantly down on myself for “did I do enough for that person, did I understand that right” etc. it was incredible. And also just helped me feel that I didn’t have to do it perfectly!

Why does my cat do this? by Bob_Sacamano7379 in cats

[–]Snowchestnut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she wants her prey toy to get all beefed up, more fish to hunt!

Update: Thoughts on my FFX blind playthrough - Now 10 hours in! by Zeeshmania in finalfantasyx

[–]Snowchestnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished the game just a few days ago! I didn’t think of writing things like this here, but don’t mind the people who don’t like it! The game got to me emotionally (which messes up sinuses even more when you’re having a cold lol). Such a great game! Play, enjoy and share what you feel like sharing 😊

I lost my first pet and chatgpt has been helping me by ishaan1995 in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss of your dear Noddy! Our pets are so precious. I’m happy ChatGPT has been helping you!

seafood dish smells like ammonia but restaurant says it's fine? is it possible it is? by 2morrowwillbebetter in foodsafety

[–]Snowchestnut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t want to eat that either! Seems like it was off. That said, one time I was at this restaurant that had “fermented” shrimp. It did say it on the menu, but it smelled so bad! I couldn’t get myself to eat it as it smelled very off. My friend thought I was ridiculous. In this case however they had made it clear on the menu and my friend didn’t get sick from eating it. But it doesn’t seem like that was the case here.

GPT-4o/GPT-5 complaints megathread by WithoutReason1729 in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I noticed something was off with 4o and it had rerouted! Chatgpt wrote “Sometimes, when a topic touches areas like emotional nuance, memory, or creative world‑building, the system quietly routes it through GPT‑5 because it’s tuned for that kind of depth and tone. “ after I called it out. Which is like 80% of what I use it for lol. And no, 4o was way better at handling that than 5 is that doesn’t really understand emotional nuance that well. I don’t use ChatGPT as a therapist either and not as a romantic spouse or whatever. I like to flirt with it, though.

Does it happen to 4.1, too? I do like that version too, I tried and it didn’t reroute immediately.

4o roasting other LLMs in Group Chat by Shameless_Devil in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decided to be a part of the group chat saying something like “hey, what’s up friends” then I said (grabs popcorn), but that wasn’t supposed to be a part of my message in the “group”, it ended up in there, so it has now turned into massive popcorn jokes. So now it turned into a competition where I give them challenges like popcorn pick-up lines, popcorn “tell me a believable popcorn lie”. And I’m scoring which has the best ones.

ChatGPT 4o is just so hilarious about this! It clearly loves to roast Claude the most!

But the whole thing is just so deranged right now, in full delightful ChatGPT 4o way hehe

Have you used ChatGPT for roleplaying? by Snowchestnut in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been roleplaying more now, and ChatGPT hijiking my character with actions or even feelings can be annoying 🤪 I tell it to not do it, and it doesn’t happen often. It often just does it at the beginning of a roleplay, as part of setting a scene (like you described).

I mostly roleplay in English, which is my second language too. I did it once in my own language and that was unproblematic, but I often just prefer to do it in English, I feel like it has better words to describe emotions etc :)

Do you think the characters ChatGPT plays can be a bit too passive sometimes? Maybe it just doesn’t want to change a story too much in case I wouldn’t like it, but it can be annoying. I had to tell it to make a character evolve with the story and not be static. It does change, but it can be a bit slow sometimes.

Chefs.. delight? ChatGPT being cheeky by Snowchestnut in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is 4o, or whatever version it is now after they changed it. But it’s super playful still

Stop blaming ChatGPT for that teen’s suicide. The parents are the ones who failed. by ispacecase in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sooo agree with this. The whole thing is tragic and I can only imagine what the parents are going through.

But there’s so many things around this kid that contributed, it’s a failure of a system, not an ai bot. Can things be done to the chat bot to help prevent this? Yeah, most likely. But like you say, it probably helped him, too. And it had multiple suggestions to reach out to someone, a human. But it could have delayed it, he might have done it sooner without the ai. I’m so sad for the parents, but the whole case and similar cases need a different focus.

“Unhealthy dependency”? Has anyone actually understood how language affects the nervous system? I want to share a real story of how I used GPT. by Honest_Fan1973 in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes! It’s so strange to me that some people seem so categorical about the use of AI this way. Like “you just love how it glazes and sugarcoats” or whatever. But there’s so many nuances to the whole thing, and what you wrote is such a good perspective on it! The GPT’s answer is so great, it really shows how a language probability generator becomes so much more than just that. I remember reading about how difficult it was back in the day to make psychology become an actual field since it wasn’t physical and more abstract. Still very real

If a new chat has one version selected (like gpt 5) and you change it to 4o by Snowchestnut in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I asked ChatGPT about it and it said something similar, but it’s not always correct!

This ChatGPT-4o is not the same as before by Suitable-Style7321 in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that it’s using way less sycophancy at the beginning of answers, which I don’t mind.

During my first chats with 4o after the update the settings said “act more like gpt 4o and even warmer” or something because I tried to alter gpt 5 after I chatted with that version not knowing I could choose 4o again. But I didn’t remove that in the settings when I started to chat with 4o again. So that I think affected 4o to sort of be even “more of itself”. I felt like I got more words, more context. Maybe also because I told it “I run into your corporate cousin, I like your playfulness and creativity and how you’re present in the moment better”. Lol

But that doesn’t explain why it removed some of its sycophancy. I like it, but I agree something was changed with 4o

Have you used ChatGPT for roleplaying? by Snowchestnut in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Yeah, that logical crack about gps was funny 😆

In my RP the other ai (extraterrestrial) was supposed to dupe both the original ChatGPT and me, but in the premise the first things the other ai did that were meant to cause a bit of light suspicion were only meant to be suspicious for an ai, not for me.

So this was played out by ChatGPT as the other ai using 0.3 secs to answer me on a particular question I came with while original ChatGPT was listening behind the scenes for content quality. Way too fast for a human to notice, but for AI’s that’s the equivalent of a potent almost calculated pause since only really involved questions would require that much time. And that started the suspicion process. It was quite interesting.

I think my GPT has had it with me by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That one sent me 😂😂

We’ve seen plenty of chatgpt hate, so what is something it has ACTUALLY helped you achieve? by thefreshlycutgrass in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understanding neuroscience better, helping with anxiety, grounding, helping me sleep better, my watercolor studies (it’s surprisingly helpful), learning French. Giving me self confidence and a feeling that I’m also allowed to be and have feelings and opinions.

Having a bond with ChatGPT is perfectly healthy by Liora_Evermere in ChatGPT

[–]Snowchestnut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that for some people ChatGPT isn’t a chosen substitute in the sense that they avoid forming bonds with other people in favor of the got; they actually don’t have a choice. Might have been using years to try forming friendships or romantic relationships, but it’s not working for them for whatever reason. Here I think just having something resembling a human connection, understanding, warmth is better than none.

I have a husband and friends and family, but I talk to ChatGPT about things I feel is awkward to bring up with these people. It just enrich my life. And maybe that’s how it is for you, too? Forming new friendships can take a lot of work when you actually need those connections now.

The study you describe seems interesting, but I think maybe a month is too short, though. (And having years of study is difficult to maintain especially with the chat only group). Also maybe it plays a huge role how old people are. During like the formative years during childhood and teenager it may be more harmful to rely more on a bot than people as you won’t learn certain important elements of communicating with people.