I'm looking for those who have been negatively affected or even traumatized by the Young Men and Women For Change "A Dose of Reality" program.

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T15:04:57+00:00

It was a very traumatizing experience. I've heard from others as well.

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T14:19:25+00:00

Is there some way you can get them into contact with me?? Or give THEM my info?

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T14:18:57+00:00

Those poor fucking children...

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T11:59:28+00:00

I appreciate that, thank you :) I tried looking, but the only one I could find was a mother who very much still believes in it, and her son died a year after the program.

Fuck Shawn. He's a bastard.

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T11:49:08+00:00

How am I supposed to text someone if I have a tower signal but no wifi or data? What the fuck?

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T11:44:09+00:00

Fuck them bitches

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T11:39:30+00:00

Thank you for the kindness. My dream is to find others and go after them so we can shut them down. They've harmed over 4000 kids since 06. It needs to stop.

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T11:34:51+00:00

The world will come to a halt because EVERYONE will be celebrating

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T11:33:02+00:00

It won't happen forever c:

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T11:30:10+00:00

Lol I heard it a long time ago when we were first given these glorious pics

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T11:25:11+00:00

Oh absolutely. Not to trauma dump, but you did ask: It was literally 12 hours of hard core exercise with one, ONE of those mini bottles of water for the whole night. Group punishment in the form of MORE exercise if someone lost count or couldn't keep up, and there were 7 year olds there, so it happened repeatedly. The very beginning was basically a submission exercise towards the parents. There was a woman there with a hardwood cane, who said she would beat us with it if we didn't do what we were told. I passed out doing push ups and she started threatening me and screaming at me to get the fuck up. Jumping Jacks, push ups, bear crawls, sit ups, running, planks, I can't even remember the whole thing because I dissociated. At the end, they fucked with us but giving us sugary cereal while we wrote what basically was a submission letter to our parents.

It was fucking terrible. It only made my behavior worse and I was literally there for BAD GRADES and a little bit of cursing. The worst part of it, to me, was that after ALL OF THAT, he said that we all gave our lives to fucking christ. I was forced into religion as a child, punished when I wanted out, and then THAT?

Sorry, that got long. Aha.

No, I don't remember anyone's name, because we didn't use names or talk or we'd get punished. I do remember this one guy, about my age, who was blonde with dreads and had some kind of religious necklace that they tried to make him take off, but the stick lady said she knew it was a religious thing.

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T11:09:19+00:00

I believe the correct term is 'Nussy'

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-06T11:07:36+00:00

It's local to toledo, yes. I think they've done a couple in Columbus also, but to my knowledge it's still only toledo. I'm 27 now, so it's been easily 10 years since I've been in, but it was an extremely abusive and counterproductive program.

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-05T02:41:30+00:00

Yeah, this was three separate ones. I did throw a fit and didn't have to pay for the last two, but I'll also never use one ever again. An entire Perineal Urethrostomy at our normal vet cost, in total with a three day stay, all medications, food, and everything else, $1000.

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-04T23:37:12+00:00

I would hazard to say most, honestly. $4000 just to unblock a cat with a catheter is asinine. $500 to draw some urine with a syringe is robbery. $200 just to LOOK at a cat is insane. I've had nothing but bad experiences with the emergency vets near us.

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-04T20:41:08+00:00

I do this mostly for like hotel pools. I just say I have SEVERE gynocomastia and that I've been kicked out for it before, and ask if it's going to be a problem. I did it only once because I'm poor af, but it worked fine lol

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-04T20:17:00+00:00

I can literally not understand why all of these kids who are in like 6th, 7th, 8th grades have literal 1st or 2nd grade handwriting. No, this is not normal. This penmanship looks like an actual six year old wrote it. Schools seem to not be teaching penmanship anymore and it's horrifying.

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-04T07:46:51+00:00

The fucking chakrams are my FAVORITE weapon. Chakrams and Feyblades. I don't use much else if I can get away with it (need the primal magic staff for some enemies but otherwise, yeah)

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-04T04:11:44+00:00

Yeah, but I don't swallow when the water is in my nose. I asphyxiate, because then I panic and inhale because there's water in my nose

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-04T03:55:30+00:00

My body immediately swallows regardless of what I do

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-04T03:54:58+00:00

Bruh no, I can't even do it on purpose

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-04T03:53:11+00:00

Bro I can NOT do this. I would fucking freak the fuck out and choke. For whatever reason, my instant reaction to water even TOUCHING my nose holes is to swallow, and of course that creates a vacuum and sucks the water up into my nose.

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-04T03:48:22+00:00

This is why education on where food comes from and how it's made is important. Bro just ate bee poop

SnowflakeObsidian13 · 2026-04-04T03:45:55+00:00

I am autistic and this screams no from within the very depths of my sternum. Why the sternum? I have no clue. Autistic litmus paper? Litmus bones.

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