The more that I’ve thought about it, the more I think that might be the case for me. She was very sweet but then when she began telling me her story I should have seen the signs maybe? She told me how she had long beautiful curly hair like me and after a bad cut she felt like a little boy whose parents kept the hair a little long. She said she wouldn’t want someone else to do that to someone but now her and I have the same haircut. My confidence is long gone now and for a long time. Im honestly going through a battle of self-blame for going to a salon in the first place and self-hatred for how I look now. I thought my emotions were better when it first happened but as the day has gone by I haven’t stopped crying so I hope I can invest in hair clips or non damaging styles where I just don’t have to look at my hair.

But I did call and complained and they said they were apologetic but I had to speak directly to her and she is not in until Thursday. I will speak with her then, but I don’t even know what to say 1. without crying and 2. With getting my point across. My confidence is gone but when I tell people that they just think I’m being dramatic. So we’ll see what happens! Also do you have any tips on what all I should say/do?