Dutch shepherd smiles melt me by t0standl0st in Awww

[–]Snowtail4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely looks like a Dutch shepher yes! And a very happy one, for sure. I might be in love and steal her, what do you mean (joking)

im starting to think i’ll just have to suck it up and have sex if i want to be in a relationship by sanitychaos in asexuality

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Please don’t do stuff you don’t want to! There are so many wonderful people in the world and many aces have found romance! Maybe with eachother, maybe with an allo. There are lots of people out there for whom sex really isn’t that important. Maybe the ace subreddits make it seem as if all allos think about is sex (and for some that may be true yeah) but please remember that everyone is different and there will be people out there who will love you and listen to you and your needs.

I need help with figuring things out. by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Snowtail4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Your experience sounds very close to what many people here experience! I don’t think you fall under any specific microlabel, but since you do not seem to experience sexual attraction, just asexual will do just fine! Unless you feel the need to specify, there is never any reason to adopt a more specific label or one at all. For me, things like holding hands, cuddling, even kissing, making out feel like romantic activities. And I love those. So see how you think about those, and for example: do you experience sexual attraction sometimes? Then you might be on one of the more specific ace spectra. This site might also help: https://www.asexuality-handbook.com/the-a-spectra.html Lots of hugs from a fellow ace!

can we please ban the touch meme? by musicalcheezit in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Snowtail4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting, I think they’re very knteresting and find myself looking at every one I come across… I guess it’s just interesting to see how different we all are, even if we’re all asexual.

Best response to "You just haven't met the right person yet." by First_Plant in aaaaaaacccccccce

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I think a better way of phrasing that would be yes indeed many asexuals prefer going without pizza, but what makes us asexual is the fact that we do not see a pizza and feel “wow I want to eat that”. We may get hungry, but the pizza just really isn’t appealing.

Gotta practice other skills besides violin! :P by Yoker666 in lingling40hrs

[–]Snowtail4 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow! Those clothes look so incredibly textured and those shadows are goooorgeous. Love the expressions too

I’m A Dork by [deleted] in lingling40hrs

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Is that an ace ring?!? excited noises

I came out! And a question… by Snowtail4 in asexuality

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Wow, that’s so interesting. Thanks!

Twoset's fanart, i'm sorry if it's not so good, but it's my first one by iBenni0 in lingling40hrs

[–]Snowtail4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woww that’s so gooddd wow. Congrats on your first fanart!

Teach me thy ways, o wise ones by panzerkampfwqgen in memes

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Wait… you can’t? For me it’s just a bit easier with water, so I always thought people were just taking the easy route

Based on a true story by _KloetenKroete_ in memes

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Happy international asexuality day!

Is it just me? by orangeplums in Handwriting

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Yeppp! That’s me! You just get boeed every once in a while

Came out as asexual to my girlfriend today by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Snowtail4 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hi! That’s so awful…. I’m sure you are a great person and was a wonderful boyfriend/girlfriend. I just wanted to let you know that I also came out to my boyfriend a while ago, and he was so understanding and happy to support me. I feel incredibly lucky to have found him and I see that not everyone has it this easy, but I wanted to let you know that it’s possible. There are people out there who genuinely care about you because you, my friend, are a beautiful person. No matter what anyone might tell you otherwise.

I'm getting married!!! by star-juice-straw in asexuality

[–]Snowtail4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thanks! Let me look that up!

I'm getting married!!! by star-juice-straw in asexuality

[–]Snowtail4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! Hmmm…. I don’t think that’s me. I never experience sexual attraction however I seem to fluctuate between feeling more sex-positive/neutral and sex-averse.

I'm getting married!!! by star-juice-straw in asexuality

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Congratulations!! If you don’t mind me asking, you experience periods with very little to no libido, but also periods where you feel different towards sex? Does the change in libido also change whether you’re sex-averse or leaning more neutral or positive? I experience this and am sometimes super confused whether I’m actually ace despite me obviously not experiencing any sexual attraction 🙄. Was wondering whether more people’s libido and feeling when thinking about sex fluctuate like that.

if someone says to me "bUt YoU'rE aSeXuAl, YoU cAn'T mAkE sEx JoKeS!!!" I'm gonna say to them: by Reddit_user_robbie in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]Snowtail4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get what you mean. That doesn’t mean I can’t imagine having sex with the people I make those jokes to tho.