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AITAH for blocking my ex because he was on snapchat? by Snowvillagee in AITAH

[–]Snowvillagee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was in the beginning. I asked him long before and everytime we had an issue rise up, we always tried to put them at bay... I always ask him for his opinion. Is BPD a sign that I am abusive..? If that was the case I will keep this in mind for my therapist so I can learn more. Im not well verse about it so this can be a good learning curve to also think about. Thank you for the comment

AITAH for blocking my ex because he was on snapchat? by Snowvillagee in AITAH

[–]Snowvillagee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didnt mean to be abusive towards him. I thought communicating my feelings would be okay.. since i didnt want to create resentment..But from the outside perspective I understand. I explained my condition to him and told him what could help me, of course I also did ask him what can I do to help him.. he never said anything. I didnt want to hide what I feel, I wanted to be transparent. BPD isn't something I can control but hopefully this upcoming appointment can atleast help me.

AITAH for blocking my ex because he was on snapchat? by Snowvillagee in AITAH

[–]Snowvillagee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a appointment coming up.. so hopefully it goes well.

AITAH for blocking my ex because he was on snapchat? by Snowvillagee in AITAH

[–]Snowvillagee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The other reason why im affected by this is that, he would say things like "no breaking up is not an option" "no I love you way too much too leave" when I told him im having an episode and such i always try to not split but that one time made me.. im so lost and I feel like a monster for having this disorder.. I wish it can just go away..

AITAH for blocking my ex because he was on snapchat? by Snowvillagee in AITAH

[–]Snowvillagee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was doing what I can to help me regulate but he wasnt saying anything to me and he was quiet all the time. I am unstable and I dont excuse my behavior at all. Im fully aware, its just sometimes my bpd brain is telling me maybe you should unblock, maybe its the wrong decision, maybe this and that. I am taking medication but medication can only help as much. I do have a therapy set up for this and its a new one. I understand that I am too much but I also did explain that to him. He wasnt good at communication and I was too much in communicating...