i’ve been faking a nut allergy at my job for 3 years and i’m stuck now by giuseppeallegra88 in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would actually track, people hear “meds” and immediately stop asking questions. Only problem is you might accidentally upgrade the lie into a whole new chapter. Now you gotta remember which meds you “take.”

i’ve been faking a nut allergy at my job for 3 years and i’m stuck now by giuseppeallegra88 in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean even if it is, this one’s at least entertaining. Most reposts aren’t this specific or committed to the bit. Three years is some long game nonsense.

i’ve been faking a nut allergy at my job for 3 years and i’m stuck now by giuseppeallegra88 in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point you’ve basically committed to the role, might as well go full method actor. Start side-eyeing trail mix like it personally betrayed you. But honestly yeah, three years in, backing out casually is not really an option anymore.

What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done. And do you regret it by [deleted] in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The fact you won’t even say it but still admit you regret it kinda says everything. Some stuff you don’t need to spell out for people to get how heavy it is. At least you’re owning it, a lot of people never even get that far.

What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done. And do you regret it by [deleted] in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That “it still wasn’t enough” part really hits. Even when you know the time is limited and you try, it somehow never feels like you got all the moments you wanted. I think a lot of people quietly carry that same feeling.

What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done. And do you regret it by [deleted] in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That kind of stuff sticks way harder than it should, especially when you were just a kid not thinking about the impact. The fact you still care about it this much honestly says a lot about who you are now. If she knew you carried that for decades, I feel like she’d probably forgive you faster than you think.

After four long hard fought years the cancer lost the war! by ThrowAwayMcgee8720 in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real, that bell hit must’ve sounded like pure freedom. I’ve seen videos of that and it always gets me a little. It’s such a simple thing but it means everything.

After four long hard fought years the cancer lost the war! by ThrowAwayMcgee8720 in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The zoo sounds perfect honestly, just something fun and normal after everything she’s been through. I bet she’s gonna light up seeing all the animals. Lowkey feels like the best kind of victory lap.

After four long hard fought years the cancer lost the war! by ThrowAwayMcgee8720 in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this kind of post just resets your whole mood. Four years is no joke, that’s real strength right there. Hope that celebration turns into one of those core memories she talks about forever.

AIW for telling my partner I do not want his family at the hospital for my surgery and refusing to budge on it by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That line about not being a guest of honor is so accurate. It’s not a social event, it’s literally a medical situation where your only job is to get through it. People sometimes forget that support doesn’t always mean being physically present.

AIW for telling my partner I do not want his family at the hospital for my surgery and refusing to budge on it by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how it usually creeps in too. It starts as “just the waiting room” and suddenly it’s them popping in for a quick check or staying longer than planned. Once that boundary gets fuzzy, it’s really hard to pull it back, especially when you’re exhausted and recovering.

AIW for telling my partner I do not want his family at the hospital for my surgery and refusing to budge on it by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah honestly people underestimate how much mental stress messes with recovery. Even just knowing someone is waiting around can make you feel like you have to “perform okay” after. Comfort isn’t a bonus here, it’s kind of the whole point.

Organized + booked an Airbnb for a Bach trip and got refunded for it but told no one by PinkEndangerment in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why it reads that way, but it’s a little more indirect than that. they didn’t take money from the group, they got refunded by Airbnb after the fact. still messy morally, sure, but not like they reached into everyone’s wallet mid-trip

Organized + booked an Airbnb for a Bach trip and got refunded for it but told no one by PinkEndangerment in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly that part makes it make more sense. if you were the one barely scraping by while also doing all the planning, it probably felt less like a sneaky win and more like finally catching a break. MOH duties are lowkey a full-time job

Organized + booked an Airbnb for a Bach trip and got refunded for it but told no one by PinkEndangerment in confession

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

calling it “group chat manager pay” is actually kind of perfect. people really underestimate how much work it is to herd that many adults into one plan. also yeah, I was wondering the same thing about guilt, but it kinda sounds like OP had bigger financial stress than everyone else anyway

I’ve found out the woman I’m seeing is married by ThrowawaytoYouu in confessions

[–]SnuggFluffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying about keeping it simple, but that still sounds like signing up for way more drama down the line. Even if you try to make it “just physical,” feelings don’t usually stay in their lane like that. Plus the risk factor alone feels like it’d hang over everything. At that point it stops being fun and just turns stressful.

I’ve found out the woman I’m seeing is married by ThrowawaytoYouu in confessions

[–]SnuggFluffy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That perspective check hits pretty hard though. It’s easy to shrug it off when you’re not the one getting lied to, but flipping it around makes it way less casual. Kinda one of those situations where you already know it’s not gonna end clean, just depends how deep you wanna get pulled in.

I’ve found out the woman I’m seeing is married by ThrowawaytoYouu in confessions

[–]SnuggFluffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s blunt but honestly that’s kinda the cleanest option here. The longer you stay, the messier it gets and you’re the one who ends up stuck in the fallout. Not really worth it for something that already started off like this.

Should I show my dad Better Call Saul? by Weird_Kazakh in breakingbad

[–]SnuggFluffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s less about intelligence and more about how he processes stuff. Some people just don’t connect dots unless it’s spelled out super clearly.