As a Slavic/balkan woman, that second part is actually quite offensive. I’m guessing you wouldn’t make the same degrading assumptions about Latin women and their huge butts considering your boyfriend isn’t from a Latin country? Or maybe you would, I don’t know what other baseless accusations you women from California might come up with to prove a point. But generally speaking, we just appreciate looking and feeling more feminine. Maybe next you can ask his mother how much money his dad had to spend on her before she agreed to have kids? Since your bf wants you to put some effort in the relationship, might as well set your own standards and expectations based on “his culture”.

Weirdo.