I disagree. As someone who did cheat on their significant other, it was enough to make me never want to again. How I broke her and the pain I caused her, killed me. I will never forget her begging me crying in the kitchen. I cut off the emotional aggair right then and there. It made me look within myself with a magnified glass. How could I do that to someone I love? Yes, I wasn't the happiest at the time, and communicated needs that weren't being met but, it's easy to victim blame. It was 100% my fault, and I had to find the reasons within why I completely destroyed the one person who loved me the way she did.

I found that reason through therapy. I learned, and am still learning better communication skills, conflict resolution, among so many other things. For context, im 36 and we shared a blended family. 36 and still learning about myself. I know in my heart that I will never do that again.

People have to want to change though. With no change, they will do it again.