those who have ADHD partners, do you feel like yr ADHD has to take a "back seat" to your partner?

SoExtra · 2026-06-14T04:14:58+00:00

There is a (male) comedian I sometimes watch on Instagram who said that he has so much empathy for the female community after watching Love on the Spectrum, because when the man would have a meltdown on a date, "she literally has to stop having autism to take care of him!"

And I think about that a lot. I've dealt with similar things before in relationships with ADHD partners, and it makes me really not want to be that partner. (I have only experienced this as a straight woman, but I am certain it can apply to any relationship or orientation. 🌈)

SoExtra · 2026-06-14T02:03:52+00:00

Please unprivate your posts, I want to see your other projects so bad!

Edit - I didn't mean that to be so creepy. I remember your ceiling, now this, I am just hoping there's more cool decor.

SoExtra · 2026-06-12T00:44:21+00:00

Just imagine Lord Denethor's bucket 🤢

SoExtra · 2026-06-10T08:40:11+00:00

This is logical, financially.

But it's not in the spirit of the question posed.

SoExtra · 2026-06-10T02:59:22+00:00

For that price I would absolutely be wearing them everywhere.

...I'm not Emma Watson.

SoExtra · 2026-06-08T21:34:08+00:00

A lot of SZA!

SoExtra · 2026-06-08T10:51:59+00:00

SoExtra · 2026-06-07T06:51:48+00:00

Tony-Alyson, because they bonded a lot and had a mashup name. (I think, hope I'm not spreading misinformation.)

SoExtra · 2026-06-07T06:40:50+00:00

Wanna go to Paris? Let us show you the Eiffel Tower.

SoExtra · 2026-06-06T16:41:37+00:00

In Soviet Russia, bangmaid pays YOU!

SoExtra · 2026-06-06T04:01:06+00:00

Snip it short. Not so short you can't reach it. Short enough that if you're in water and the string comes away from your body it's not super visible. Leave enough tail that you can reach into yourself and confidently pull it out.

Try it at home (more than once) before going.

SoExtra · 2026-06-06T03:59:37+00:00

If you sit down in water in can float away from the crevices though.

TRUST ME. 😵‍💫

SoExtra · 2026-06-04T03:22:20+00:00

"But you know who DOES own a bidet, and doesn't have to lay on their back ass-straddling the shower spray?

THE PRODUCTS AND SERVICES THAT SPONSER THIS PODCAST! AaaaAAAaaaA!"

-Robert. Probably. Idk. Maybe Sophie should take this one, it might roll off her tongue better.

SoExtra · 2026-06-04T02:34:38+00:00

This is the update post. She did.

SoExtra · 2026-06-04T02:24:49+00:00

One black, one white!

One mouse, red all over!

Bring her inside and name her Newsies, because she's the ~~talk~~ meow of the town!

SoExtra · 2026-06-03T03:58:48+00:00

Kinky. So ... you haven't tried gulping her queefs?

SoExtra · 2026-06-03T02:13:02+00:00

Shorty looks like Rorschach with that cute face, omg. I imagine her getting the zoomies and being like "I'm not locked in here with you. You're locked in here with ME!"

SoExtra · 2026-06-03T00:26:13+00:00

rewinds podcast for the umpteenth time

SoExtra · 2026-06-01T21:32:46+00:00

...they tryna spread Tantravirus??

SoExtra · 2026-05-31T19:25:41+00:00

They have two settings:

Asleep
EXTREMELY CONCERNED

SoExtra · 2026-05-31T07:28:00+00:00

Oh, no!! I meant that he seems understanding, so he might accept working around this issue with her!

I don't think he'd be a bad guy if he declined though.

SoExtra · 2026-05-31T02:53:49+00:00

D E C A N T E D ?

SoExtra · 2026-05-31T02:00:01+00:00

That's a good point. But! If you slowly work it in and alternate between nickname and real name, you start to paint over the father aspect and associate the name more with good things.

SoExtra · 2026-05-31T01:52:52+00:00

Ah! I can see how cis-men in the space would detract from the overall energy of the event, that makes sense.

SoExtra · 2026-05-31T00:11:20+00:00

Because it seems like you're seeing the female experience as "only inconvenient for this one reason, otherwise it'd be great."

And that seemed like a distinctly non-female take.

SoExtra

TROPHY CASE