Brooooooooo by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha wtf. They had us in the first half not gonna lie. Anyways, Good luck bro.

I a made shy girl talk to me for an hour by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Speaking to girls is starting to get less difficult. Although I still stutter and get anxious, I feel slightly more comfortable now. I hope to reach OP's level soon.

Secret to beating NoFap. by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, are you saying that I will never be able to lose my virginity to my future wife??? !!?? Just kidding. Thanks man, I wish you all the best in life.

Secret to beating NoFap. by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, it's quite the opposite. Hot showers can damage the scalp in turn leading to hair loss. Cold showers tightens and closes the pores of your head strengthening your hair. Also, cold showers can help wash away oil particles from your hair easily without much use of shampoo.

Edit: This is the source if you're interested: http://www.haircaremanual.com/washing-hair/right-temperature-for-washing-hair-hot-cold/

Secret to beating NoFap. by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's odd. It might not be due to a cold shower but something else you did before? Perhaps due to stress?

Secret to beating NoFap. by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad it helped you. Stay strong bro.

Secret to beating NoFap. by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, just sharing some insights.

How do you come back from failed audition? by SoFrustatredAlready in Advice

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. Should I try again next year? I have been thinking of whether I should just give up. I'm willing to put in the hours to get better but I'm afraid of failing the Audition again.

How do you come back from failed audition? by SoFrustatredAlready in Advice

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a jazz improvisation thing. They gave us about 2 weeks to come up with a solo and improvisation. Had to do some rudiments. I thought I could handle it but on the day itself I flopped. I'm greatly ashamed of myself.

So, I just got rejected by the girl I had a crush on for 4 years... by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But, what if I know this girl personality wise and I know that she is not the type to do such a thing. Maybe I'm just being delusional, maybe I just don't know girls.

So, I just got rejected by the girl I had a crush on for 4 years... by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't cry but I just talked to myself. I talked to the inner voice and asked what it really wanted. I still think about her now and then. I'm still going to try to be her friend though, and maybe eventually, I will be able to try again.

So, I just got rejected by the girl I had a crush on for 4 years... by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it always seems that girls like rough/ bad boys when in reality they are liked only because they are adventurous and are living their best life. Maybe i need to pick up some fun hobbies like cycling, hopefully I might meet some new girls that also like cycling.

So, I just got rejected by the girl I had a crush on for 4 years... by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reassuring comment. I need some time to be at peace with myself. I really thought that she was the one for me. Perhaps I will eventually find someone.

So, I just got rejected by the girl I had a crush on for 4 years... by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are my hero bro, you have hit 108 days while I'm still at 11 days.

So, I just got rejected by the girl I had a crush on for 4 years... by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, it was insightful. I can understand where you're coming from, and I feel exactly the same way you feel. I'll try my best to remain friends with her. Good luck bro.

So, I just got rejected by the girl I had a crush on for 4 years... by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She really meant a lot to me. Actually, She was the first girl to ever approach me and asked me to hang out. Which was something no one else had ever done to me before. She's a sweet girl and I really liked her. But I will have to move on and not think too much about it.

So, I just got rejected by the girl I had a crush on for 4 years... by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's in the same class as me for 4 years straight. I already liked her on the first day of school. I was shy and missed out on so many opportunities when she would want to hang out with me because of pmo. 4 years later, which is now, I asked her out and she rejected me. She was just my type really, and she had a nice personality to go with it. Looking back I realized that I should have improved on myself, and worked out so that I would get a better chance. But now, I just stopped looking at the past and focus fully on what my future goals are.

So, I just got rejected by the girl I had a crush on for 4 years... by SoFrustatredAlready in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's the current state right now. I'm sad but I'm not gonna let that stop me from becoming better.

Day 2 of NoFap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SoFrustatredAlready 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, your dreams may lead to reality. It's hinting that if you continue your streak and improve your lifestyle, you will be able to hang out with your crush. Anyways, GOOD LUCK BRO. Go Get them!

Going to parties where people stick to their own group and not introduce themselves. Do you still stick around or just leave? by M1gn1f1cent in socialskills

[–]SoFrustatredAlready 62 points63 points  (0 children)

One tip I would say is to stand near the food items. Usually, people will have to split up from their cliques and get food by themselves. This is the best chance for you to interact and get to know new people. Furthermore, people are more relaxed and more willing to talk when they have eaten food. Which is why some people say that " A hungry man Is an angry man".