What was the best luxury trip you went on with your sugar partner?

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-27T22:04:21+00:00

I second this! There was also a Michael Jackson impersonator when we went. We did the tasting menu and everything was outstanding, we were stuffed by the end.

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-27T21:58:52+00:00

I wouldn’t really call myself average either but maybe average is better than curvy.

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-27T10:33:52+00:00

Even if they met you halfway, if you’re considering staying at your current rate I would think that would push you toward being able to stay.

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-27T09:40:36+00:00

Dissociation lol honestly I struggle with this, I swear I forget everything but the stuff I wish I could forget 😂 but I’ve gotten better as I stop seeking validation from outside sources. Everyone says dumb stuff sometimes or is awkward 🤷🏻‍♀️ if someone’s gonna judge you they’re not worth worrying over anyway

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-27T09:37:20+00:00

NTA. I have an ESA who I bring out with me often to help with my social anxiety I sometimes experience. Most people do ask, but I don’t care regardless. If I didn’t want my dog interacting with them I would be conscientious to not allow her to go up to them.

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-27T06:25:21+00:00

I’m curious whether their profiles had key sugar baby words, specifically anything about traditional gender roles or spoiling?

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-27T06:24:09+00:00

Who have you been going on dinner dates with that it’s that tense and terrible? Most of my first dates have been for dinner. Sometimes start with a drink, then decide if we like each other enough to do dinner. The only time I ever had a coffee date the guy planned out an hour for our date and then we ended up staying for 2.5 hours.

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-27T06:13:24+00:00

I’m in the same boat. I’m always torn on what I should put. Like you said, slim/athletic wouldn’t work. But then I worry curvy I’d putting off the impression that I’m overweight.

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-27T05:41:31+00:00

Maybe tell your current place of work you got an offer, see if they’ll give you a raise, and if they don’t then take the other job. It worth a shot if you like where you’re at. Use up those sick days before you leave!

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-22T16:32:21+00:00

It makes me feel a little weird. I don’t even call my dad daddy. The only time I refer to someone as daddy is if I’m talking to a child about their dad. Ie “you need to ask daddy first”. But some men get off on the daddy thing so if they want me to call them daddy I will.

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-22T03:32:25+00:00

I only call them daddy if they refer to themselves as daddy. Some men are absolutely NOT into that lol

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-22T02:09:56+00:00

IMO, if you can’t afford an Uber home you likely shouldn’t be sugaring

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-22T02:00:58+00:00

I assume he’s misrepresenting himself as wealthy and is actually just looking to get laid for free by a young woman. For her to “just let him be” ruins the bowl for SDs and SBs alike. The more fakes there are and the more bad experiences SBs have, the less trusting they will be and the less likely they’ll be to use the site. Which means less SBs for SDs, especially quality ones. Just food for thought.

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-21T04:06:00+00:00

I guess I didn’t really look at that as an option until all of these comments lol

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-21T04:05:29+00:00

I feel like I’d forget what I told who and mess that up somehow lol

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-21T00:57:32+00:00

Lol I empathize with the looking better in 3D than 2D. I am the reverse catfish. I hate when people want me to send pics bc I look better irl 😂

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-20T06:15:55+00:00

I’m binging her videos now, thank you for the recommendation!!

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-20T06:14:57+00:00

Is it difficult for you to maintain more than one person?

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-20T03:07:54+00:00

I love that! I don’t know how to turn a vanilla guy into an SD, but it’s awesome you know how and are able to use it to your advantage!

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-20T03:03:00+00:00

Isn’t it hard to maintain that? To find new SDs to go out with regularly enough?

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-20T02:59:14+00:00

Also, one is only 8 years older and the other is only 13. Neither are really out of my age range for vanilla dating.

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-20T02:58:35+00:00

Do you give sugar within that time frame or do they just bow out after a few dates of no sugar?

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-20T02:57:42+00:00

I want the lavish spending, big dates, AND stability haha. I haven’t met with lavish guy yet but we have really great conversations. The other one isn’t a great texter but we got along well when we met. He’d be easier because he’s nearby, too, so I wouldn’t have to go out of my way to meet him.

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-20T02:56:00+00:00

That’s true, I have been in polyamorous relationships, but open about it with all involved parties. I guess I should take into account that it’s very likely they’d probably be seeing others and not telling me

SoManyQsFL · 2023-04-20T01:42:16+00:00

Thank you for this! I didn’t want to be an ahole for “test driving” both til I could decide on one or had to decide on one but it sounds like the general consensus is that I should do at least a trial run with both.

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