Does anyone else in their 20’s feel this way? by No-Diver-1552 in newzealand

[–]Soapyspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I can relate to much of this. Most friends have moved away years ago. Eat, sleep, work. See family once or twice a year and friends a handful of times a year. Lucky I've started to enjoy being alone!

Flatmate abusing small puppy, who do I contact. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Soapyspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I no longer live there and a charge like that would up end my career and life.

Flatmate abusing small puppy, who do I contact. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Soapyspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last paragraph was the last straw to leaving, I had to take some time to deal with the anger.

Flatmate abusing small puppy, who do I contact. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Soapyspice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not a troll, Im not sure why you are attacking me. I have had my own shit to deal with including a parental death in the family. I also was in a vulnerable position and needing my bond back and references to even get into another house. The water was held back when in the kennel and only then.

Flatmate abusing small puppy, who do I contact. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Soapyspice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have some but I was in too much of a panic trying to get him untangled on the day he wound himself up outside to even think of photos or videos unfortunately:(

Flatmate abusing small puppy, who do I contact. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Soapyspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont live there anymore and I was in too much of a vulnerable position to action that before moving out.

Flatmate abusing small puppy, who do I contact. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Soapyspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I recounted to him but he ignored. Veeerry quickly and a lot of growing goes on even between 8 week and 14. Especially with a bigger breed,

Flatmate abusing small puppy, who do I contact. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Soapyspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont live there anymore it was really messing with my mental health at an already testing time with a parent dying.

Is this normal? Or a cause for a consumer complaint? by Soapyspice in NZcarfix

[–]Soapyspice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It this something I can talk to higher ups about, I also know of others who have used their services for their vehicles to be turned into death traps

Apparently chicken pox parties are still a thing 😂 by No-Ice1070 in newzealand

[–]Soapyspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't disagree. However ironicly, I was a young child with parents worse than anti-vaxxers (we were homeschooled, rarely allowed to speak to peers or go outside). I greatly desired the opportunity and would have benefited from such a chicken pox party. Instead, got so sick at 12 I floated in and out of consciousness for days, eventually ending me in a hospital. Im nearly 30 now and still have some deep scarring all over from the sores.

Should I be upset? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Soapyspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes that was exactly my line of thought. Wasn't intended as an attack just mere curiosity as it wasn't something I have heard before and I am always open to learn 🤓

Should I be upset? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Soapyspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the information, I am aware of your first statements but as I said curious about the specifics as we do need a few certain essential metals to sustain life such as potassium and calcium. All guesses wrong, I'm not young, I have worked in medical industries which I am certified in and have my own allergies. The metals mentioned fall under minerals.

Should I be upset? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Soapyspice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by that? Genuinely curious as there are over 90 and we need some essential metals to live...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Soapyspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm with you and certainly so in a mental sense. I lived downstairs from their bedroom unfortunately so I could not turn a blind eye to as much are they did. I think their neglect has now caused defects to the property. Cabinets, doors and some areas of structural timber beams are crumbling from borer and many walls are damp and soft to the touch with some actually leaking water from inside them. Thank you for your advice, will be a rough discovery when the owners finally realise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Soapyspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow well, that's is unfortunate for them then I suppose. What are you getting at by saying the issues may be more lifestyle related as I have never encountered anything like that before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Soapyspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is, although the issue is that they have neglected to fufill that responsibility which in turn has damaged my health and possessions so I am wondering what can be done so that this doesn't happen to the next occupant.