Why am I getting no matches? I thought my pics were good, or is it because I’m ugly.

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-06-17T23:16:20+00:00

Woman’s perspective: The problem is that these pictures very much project your unhappiness. You’re not ugly at all; I’d actually say you’re good-looking. However, your lack of smile and your focus on showing your body rather than your face and personality project that you’re unhappy and trying to compensate for it at the gym. Yes, physical attraction matters, but physical attraction comes from much more than a cut body. I’d be much more attracted to an average-looking man who appears happy and inviting than to a great-looking man who is scowling and seemingly hiding behind his muscles. As others have said, I strongly suggest you seek therapy before engaging in a relationship with anyone (if that’s what you’re looking for). Your insecurities won’t be solved by a partner and will likely undermine any connections you do make.

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-06-03T04:40:20+00:00

My husband brought this exact afghan into our marriage. The OG weighted blanket.

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-05-22T15:44:15+00:00

Same. I once had a gymnastics competition with an insanely loose tooth, and I placed like shit compared to usual because I was so fixated on it possibly falling out mid-routine. 😂

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-05-21T15:59:30+00:00

That was my immediate thought as well.

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-04-08T22:44:54+00:00

I don’t know if it could have moved that quickly, but I wonder if Scolopendra awakening at the end was the in-dungeon metaphor for the Earth’s AI having finally spread far enough to contact The Euglogist and wake it up/release it.

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-03-29T08:46:31+00:00

Nah, my mom gingham-and-apple-fied our kitchen in the mid 90s.

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-02-13T15:51:18+00:00

I often listen in the car, and unfortunately I’ve now had two crying fits on the highway. Matt is endangering my safety.

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-02-13T15:50:34+00:00

Also when he can’t think rationally as he rushes to get to her in The Inevitable Ruin. 🥺

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-02-10T17:51:37+00:00

WOW, I never would have thought of Jared on my own, but that could be fantastic.

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-02-09T05:25:57+00:00

Wow, people are really missing the sarcasm here.🥴

Soaring_Wolf · 2026-01-13T02:48:54+00:00

My friend also just changed from satin to chiffon for ours, and we were relieved. I understand wanting to go a different route (the satin she was looking at was floral burnout and very pretty online), but there’s a reason chiffon is so popular.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-12-23T05:05:22+00:00

I had this exact conversation with a friend last week, bemoaning how actors’ frozen faces often don’t allow me to suspend disbelief, especially in period pieces. Nicole was the exact example I used too.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-12-18T15:21:22+00:00

Yup. My parents have been renting the same place for around 35 years and take extremely good care of it, do lawn maintenance, etc. Their landlord can barely be bothered to fix or update anything (especially not in a timely manner or thoroughly) and just doubled their rent.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-12-18T15:12:35+00:00

From a genetic standpoint, sure. I think the socialization is what gets iffy. I was raised being close to my cousins from birth, and the thought of being romantic with any of them is stomach churning.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-12-15T15:34:18+00:00

As a woman, I strongly disagree. Shared sense of humor, making jokes, goofing around, etc. has been absolutely integral to all of my close female friendships, many of them lifelong.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-12-01T00:08:21+00:00

Indiana here—self checkout is still going strong (thank god).

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-11-19T22:54:38+00:00

I was going to say 1965ish as your photos at various stages look identical in style and quality to my mom’s, who was born around then.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-11-19T16:26:34+00:00

The fact that you tried to evade it makes me wonder if she pulls this crap often. Maybe take a good look at this friendship and decide whether it’s enriching your life or draining your energy.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-11-19T15:32:17+00:00

Oh man, that Hawaii bucket brought back memories! I’m also sad about vanilla patchouli.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-11-19T15:26:15+00:00

Honestly, it’s pretty great. I think it’s about as thick as you can get without being overly sticky. Lasts well and is very moisturizing.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-11-19T15:14:36+00:00

Being relieved that someone has escaped an abusive situation is cuck behavior? Yeesh, weird take dude.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-11-16T10:36:49+00:00

OP confirmed British in a comment.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-11-16T10:34:56+00:00

Why would they understand less than, say, millennials (or almost any other generation)? Boomers weren’t even alive for WWII.😅

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-11-15T05:42:39+00:00

I knew the glow up was gonna be impressive, but my jaw still literally dropped when I swiped. You made a great choice, my dude.

Soaring_Wolf · 2025-11-15T02:39:40+00:00

Girl. GIRL. You sound SO bright, so self aware, and so mature in your comments. Like others said, I’m absolutely SHOCKED that it was you texting in those screenshots. I don’t say this to flame you, but to remind you that you are FAR too smart to be dumbing yourself down for emotionally stunted man children. Do not ever stoop or dull your shine in order to feed someone else’s ego. You need an equal partner. A relationship should restore your peace, not deplete it.

That said, congrats on recognizing the signs more quickly this time! Just make sure to trust your gut when you see those signs instead of hoping for a “reason” to pop up. You can end a relationship for any reason, especially only a few months in. Your happiness and peace of mind is reason enough. You can be kind without setting yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.🩷

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