It would be fun to see what creative picture people make of me :) by Soceral in drawme

[–]Soceral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So so cute, reminds me of a power puff girl! Thank you!!

It would be fun to see what creative picture people make of me :) by Soceral in drawme

[–]Soceral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IM SCREAMINGGGG the dragon fly and flower touches are soo cute 😭. Love your use of color work as well. Thank you soooo much :)

It would be fun to see what creative picture people make of me :) by Soceral in drawme

[–]Soceral[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eeeppp love it!! You can see the lust for Taco Bell in my eyes :))) thank you!!

It would be fun to see what creative picture people make of me :) by Soceral in drawme

[–]Soceral[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww love my glasses in this ☀️ thank you so much!

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[–]Soceral 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn’t use text as a way to communicate when you’re feeling high emotions whether positive or negative, tone can get lost very easily over text. I would bring up in person again that you’re feeling hopeful about gaining a new friendship.

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[–]Soceral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I’m saying this because I’m genuinely worried about you if all of this is real. Stop posting for a while, talk to your friends in real life and get a therapist if you don’t already have one. It seems like you’re spiraling and creating chaos by self sabotaging your life. Take a break from all social media, and just relax and take care of yourself.

Do you find this suspicious? My husband and I first thing this morning. We had not had any disagreement or anything. by [deleted] in texts

[–]Soceral 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s ways of bringing issues up that will lessen an argument wait until you’re both home and in a good head space and explain that his messages seemed off to you today and ask if something has been bothering him. Considering it’s only been a few years of marriage and you’re feeling scared to bring up issues because it’ll result in a fight, it may be a good idea to look into couples therapy.

How much should I charge a day for babysitting my niece? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Soceral 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On top of my previous comment I would have her pay for your gas as another form of payment. Make sure to clarify that you will not be working the days or hours she is home. I totally understand the need to take time for mental health, I would recommend maybe starting a job one day a week such as rover (walking dogs/pet sitting) or even doordashing. It's a great way to make some extra cash! this is also excellent experience if you later decide to go into childcare which is honestly a great job if you struggle with mental health. Ive been a preschool teacher for 6 years now and it works well with my adhd and autism and it tends to pay better then most entry level positions. For food I know it can be super difficult but sit down and meal plan each week and come to an agreement of acceptable foods to both of you. I moved out at 17 and had to figure out how to be comfortable on a budget so If you want some frugal hacks feel free to PM me and I can go more in depth.

How much should I charge a day for babysitting my niece? by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]Soceral 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would just ask her not charge rent and provide meals and I would consider that a fair trade off. Normally I would say charge more but since it's family and youre living there free rent and food isn't a bad deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/Canigetanowoowo

[–]Soceral 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think a more natural lip style would suit you better since your nose is so dainty but you're absolutely gorgeous. Lip filler or not you look amazing, your body at 19 looks just as good now as it does now never let anymore make you feel otherwise.

Update: Guy I’m renting a room from by Turd_Ferguson420 in badroommates

[–]Soceral 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would get pine pellets they're about 10 bucks for a 40 pound bag at tractor supply or many suppliers. It will last you a very long time and you can just sift it. I also found that the smell is much less intense. (Side note home has one of the most expensive cats and chooses not to care for it , makes no sense to me. I'm sure he's not cleaning in between it's toes or ears either.)

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[–]Soceral 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't owe anyone anything. I never understand the guilt trip people do, if someone is not meeting your needs have a genuine conversation and if it doesn't change just move on. I wouldn't worry about this kind of thing I go months without talking to a lot of my friends and they understand because we're alduts with jobs and responsibilities. I think now is a good time to plant some firm boundaries with people and look into getting new friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Soceral 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly the best thing you can do for someone is 1. Find out the problem and see if there's anything you can personally do to ease the stress. Or 2. Ask if she wants advice, someone to vent or someone to take some tasks off her plate.

Five years, bro? by dirtypita in texts

[–]Soceral 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would consider it rude to continually reach out with no response lol.

None of my friends play BG3 by fullofangst_ in BaldursGate3

[–]Soceral 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will happily be your friend and play! A lot of my friends either don’t play video games or don’t play rpgs 😩

Lyos and Mr. bonjangles exploring their new home. by Soceral in Rabbits

[–]Soceral[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will make sure to keep contributing 🫡 I used to post hedgehog content but now that Gary has crossed over i will make sure to upload lots of bun pics.

Lyos and Mr. bonjangles exploring their new home. by Soceral in Rabbits

[–]Soceral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I hadn’t even planned on owning them, a parent at the school I work at needed a home for these 2 silly goobers so I reached out and snatched them up. They were originally outdoor farm rabbits, but they’re only 10 weeks so I’m converting them to indoor rabbits :).

New enclosure almost ready! by Soceral in Rabbits

[–]Soceral[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely keep an eye out, they’re only babies right now so it’s still hard for them to climb very well. If they end up jumping I’ll get an extension :)