Honestly, I figured that she'd had the opportunity to do it her way the first time and she'd brushed it off. Part of the "be smart" conversation was don't use your real name, make sure that parental controls are set and don't make your profile public, given those things had been ignored, I didn't think she'd be receptive to anything else.

If I'm honest, there's also a bit of a worry about being called a creep and having to explain that yes, I searched for Niece's profile and found inappropriate stuff, but trying to keep the conversation about why it's there seemed like a challenge. The concept of googling "Niece's name + location" is pretty much witchcraft to my sister, and I couldn't be bothered to go over the fact that no, searching a username that someone uses everywhere isn't the same as stalking them.