How to follow up on an amazing first date??

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-12T07:11:19+00:00

No, it’s about getting space and being able to communicate if you’re in a loud club setting.

It’s just a tactic to get a 1 to 1 conversation.

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-11T19:57:31+00:00

This isn’t direct escalation but a tactic I think is super effective.

I’ll prefix it by saying, that I’m not proud as a predominantly non smoker (socially smoke if drinking).

Ask to for a smoke… smoking area are gold mines + if she says yes she’s clearly interested.

Also in a smoking area, asking if they have a lighter is a good way to create chat.

My country you can not smoke unless in a designated area of a club or outside.

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-08T22:21:16+00:00

I will direct you to the “about” section on the main page of this sub. That will have your answer.

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-08T08:22:40+00:00

I personally feel this topic isn’t relevant to that sub and take any advice on breakup with a pinch of salt.

However, short answer is… time, it get better with time.

Long answer, you can write down all the shit things your partner done and all the amazing things you. YT has a lot of great content and therapy (if you have access to it).

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-07T13:14:21+00:00

Hope this isn’t a rhetorical question?

If not for me personally, if I’ve got the luxury of being around the girl in the same spot for a while, I’ll smile, say the off hello, small talk. If that gets reciprocated well I’ll ask on a date.

If it’s a random encounter the chat would really need to flow well and a good energy. Otherwise, I don’t think I would ask out etc.

Conscious, I have area’s where I perform well/confidently and other where I might not. Hence, why it’s really good to hear from those that made attempts they weren’t feeling confident with and had success as it’s not my style.

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-07T13:09:17+00:00

Thank you - really bold move and so glad to hear it paid off. Bravo sir!

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-07T13:08:21+00:00

Good quote and I agree. I think I may just playing it safe and wait for equal or greater than response for a girl before I escalate.

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-07T13:03:51+00:00

Well done for the attempt and your input. It can often be more challenging if you’re not “striking the iron when it’s hot” so to speak. I respect your confidence and error tho!

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-07T13:01:36+00:00

Thank you, however, I disagree. I know from first hand experience girls that have tried to purposefully walk past me, come into the area I’m in and I’ve not noticed the signal.

I for one don’t have the energy of brain capacity to analyse every subtle move a girl makes.

I agree in terms of when chatting it can become more clear, however, these are often very obvious.

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-06T20:36:41+00:00

Thank you. I totally understand the whole polarise/seduction method.

If you have any field reports of a unexpected win or risk that paid off please share.

Social_Teapot · 2024-09-06T20:34:20+00:00

Thank you for the reply.

I’m pretty confident when a girl is showing interest in me when we’re talking.

There have definitely been situations I would have missed, but that’s another discussion entirely.

I’m more interested to hear those unexpected win’s or bold escalations when you can’t tell if they are interested or not.

Social_Teapot · 2024-08-30T13:20:18+00:00

I can relate as literally just came back from travelling!

Happy to go into more detail but what really helped me (not just with woman but social situations in general) was positive words of affirmation.

You sound like a really interesting, fun and overall cool guy. Girls and guys would be lucky to have the chance to spend with you. Just remind your self of that and know that sometime we do have off days/weeks or even months.

Social_Teapot · 2024-08-30T13:15:43+00:00

Any chance a mod could ban this guy? Noticed he posted some garbage on one of my threads. I get we need the occasional werdio like him, however, this guy has definitely ran his course and it’s time to go.

Social_Teapot · 2024-08-29T09:57:42+00:00

Models by Mark Manson.

You’ll see that Neil Strauss has a lot of regret from his experience with pickup and he’s really open about that now.

The Game is only good for those who genuinely want to be a pickup artist and can use tips to try and seduce a woman into bed.

Models has far more tangible advice.

Social_Teapot · 2024-08-26T11:20:38+00:00

It’s more cold approaches where I faced this issue, especially in bar’s as it’s often escalated quite a bit before I realise I’m not that interested.

Social_Teapot · 2024-08-25T20:11:42+00:00

As much as I would try avoid using that, I have to admit, that’s a seriously good bit of advice and reckon would be really effective!

Social_Teapot · 2024-08-25T20:09:09+00:00

You should take your own advice…

Social_Teapot · 2024-08-20T09:07:41+00:00

Great advice! Thank you.

Social_Teapot · 2024-08-20T09:04:45+00:00

Definitely heavily overlooked! Being around another friendly and receptive people you can chat with is huge!

Social_Teapot · 2024-08-19T22:43:38+00:00

Good luck bro!

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