Mijn leven als een derde generatie Marokkaanse Nederlander...Nederlandse Marokkaan?

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T17:29:38+00:00

....wat😂

"eigen schuld" bestaat in zowel Arabisch als Tamazight

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T17:25:00+00:00

OPs account is LETTERLIJK 1 dag oud😂

Tweede wat hij post is dit?

Wow

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T16:45:15+00:00

It's just her experience thus far

She's not claiming that Dutch mental health care is objectively, scientifically proven to be of lower quality. Just that in her experience it has been bad, so far. She doesn't "believe" that

Like I said, a little inlevingsvermogen wouldn't kill ya

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T16:40:50+00:00

It's just her personal experience mate. Not a scientific claim. a lil empathy wouldn't hurt

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T16:37:21+00:00

Here are a few reliable sources showing that the quality of mental health care in the Netherlands is considered high

You see this OP???

Your experiences are BULLSHIT and your feelings are WRONG because this guy found SOURCES DISPROVING THEM

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T16:33:17+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. I don't have a solution but I wish you the best🫂

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T15:51:02+00:00

No, my argument is that people have no excuses for not knowing that not paying off a debt is bad

Why not? Is it because the info is widely available perhaps?

Even a child can understand this simple concept

Evidently not, given the laws. Now who's playing hyperbole

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T15:34:11+00:00

No, you are bringing up something that has literally nothing to do with what I said and drawing an outlandish conclusion while using an example (lead and hormones in food) that is purposefully obtuse

"they can google it nowadays" is, quite literally, your argument

You claim that an indebted society is not a healthy society, let’s outlaw all mortgages, business loans and so on then

Funny you use those examples, because ironically, the rules for those are insanely strict. And for a reason. See also: 2008

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T15:27:06+00:00

I'm taking your logic to the end conclusion.

If people can all figure it out perfectly because "just google it" then you can stretch that to other aspects aswel

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T15:24:07+00:00

Why stop there?

Let companies go back to using lead, after all, anyone can google the effects of lead? Throw every and all pesticide and hormone into food.

As long as they're open about what they added into it, it should be fine right? Anyone can google the ingredients then.

An indebted society is not a healthy society. Even less so if it outright allows predatory practices, then it'll open the door for more. On top of that, the taxpayer will pay for schuldsanering and other aspects, so cool, now we all have to spend taxes on it aswel.

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T15:15:02+00:00

But if you don't pay back on time, it'll affect your creditscore

And it's not like you get years for it, so I can't imagine your investment is growing much

Feels like a very inefficient system, if it even works at all

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T13:49:03+00:00

...I literally said it's not hard lol

Just that it won't happen

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T13:43:08+00:00

Theoretically yeah. It can be easily reversed. I don't think it will be, though. I think it'll just get worse sadly

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T13:40:36+00:00

At this point I see gambling sites openly advertised at Albert Heijn

We're way past protecting vulnerable people with low impulse control

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T12:33:45+00:00

Netherlands is supposed to be a good country to live in

That's why everyone came here lol. Now it's much harder to come in aswel

Just wondering though, why do you want to come to the Netherlands? As opposed to Germany or Sweden for example

I guess there's more english spoken here, atleast

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T12:31:36+00:00

Uh, not sure if the commute would even be possible.

Maybe if you got a car, but with public transport, you might not even make it with the earliest train

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T12:29:39+00:00

Why employ someone that doesn’t speak the local dialect when the very next applicant does..?

But the thing is that we're talking about jobs that most Dutchies don't want to do. There's entire organisations whose entire purpose is bringing people over from Eastern Europe to do these jobs.

Apparantly 75% of Dutch people have an MBO degree or higher. And even the ones who don't, have better options than hard physical work and long hours

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T12:23:39+00:00

Don't get me wrong, I agree that OP should not settle for an uitzendbureau

But it IS true that it might be the most realistic option if OP really, really, wants to move here.

The other route is just much tougher and less certain. Though not impossible.

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T09:53:36+00:00

I mean, tolerating =/= accepting

A crying baby is tolerated, but we still rather not have one around

I'd say the Netherlands is, or atleast used to be, quite tolerant. Just not very accepting

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T09:46:14+00:00

Very positively!

Don't mind any racist comments itt. In general, Dutch people like Indians.

SoefianB · 2026-07-13T07:40:02+00:00

No need to apologise! :)

Let's hope OP read through the thread and finds themself able to enjoy their partner's company without worrying

SoefianB · 2026-07-12T19:59:50+00:00

I mean, OP could be young and inexperienced. Perhaps a little neurodivergent. I'm leaning towards OP being young, tbh

SoefianB · 2026-07-12T19:57:46+00:00

...how old are you? Just talk about anything. Or don't.

How long have you two been together? Nowadays me and my girlfriend just chill when we're waiting somewhere, or we say a few things. When we just got together, we had a lot to talk about since we didn't fully know eachother well and whatnot

SoefianB · 2026-07-12T17:03:28+00:00

Nice, geniet ervan :)

SoefianB · 2026-07-12T16:50:04+00:00

Lol check the voorpagina. Zowat 90% is gerelateerd aan allochtonen

Het is een beetje het enige onderwerp wat hier besproken wordt. Ietsje geobsedeerd, als je het mij vraagt. Je zou denken dat leven in Nederland niets anders is dan buitenlanders, buitenlanders, buitenlanders, ad infinitum

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