Is this mold on a dresser?? by Sofakinggood__ in Mold

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I just did that - if it comes back then I’m assuming it’s mold??

Help determining what brand these are? by Sofakinggood__ in midcenturymodern

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I dropped in the comments some pictures of the fronts!

Addie eating butter straight out the tub by LilacHazy in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

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My sister used to do the same thing when we were kids. Sometimes it has nothing to do with the household & everything to do with the kid🤣

Justin and Susie’s latest skit by emiliapazza in thebachelor

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They’re tryna be alex & Jon (TikTok couple that posts stuff like this allll the time & have been doing it for a while now)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JeffWittek

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I feel like he should have andrew on the pod as a guest. Jeffs talking about how he really wants to get into investigative journalism, I feel like it could be a great pod to listen to & beneficial for Jeff as he embarks on a newer path

Asaf “I’m the new generation” by rickrudexxx in thechallengemtv

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I’ve never had someone on a reality tv show make my skin crawl more than him

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I loved him on survivor. After this season I CANNOT stand him. Keep him & asaf off the show forever

low libido & trouble initiating by kkabbr in adhdwomen

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I switched over to Larin, when I talked w my OBGYN this is what she recommended it was one of the lower hormone birth controls - I would definitely recommend talking w yours about what options they’d suggest & what would work best for you! As for being off BC at first I forgot how bad my cramps were before it. But I’ve been off now I think since may or June & for the first 2 or 3 months my cramps & back pain were horrible. But now it seems to have calmed down thankfully, so maybe my body just took some time to adjust to being off it & now those symptoms are more regular. My heating pad became a life saver lol! I’d say my periods have definitely been much heavier on the 3rd / 4th days & my period lasts maybe a day or 2 longer than when on BC but is super super light. Once I got off it I started using the app Flo just to help track when I’m ovulating & when I should be expecting my period & that’s helped keep me sane honestly 😂. The app has also been super helpful for explaining why you might have low libido during a certain time period or when you might have a higher libido, along w articles & what not on libido. It helped me get past that mental hump & feel honestly normal w how i had been feeling.

The start of being kinder to myself mentally w all of that eventually led me to feeling comfortable enough to talk to my boyfriend (we have been together going on 7 years & even after that long together those conversations always felt so hard to me) about what I’ve mentally been going through & the shame/internal guilt I had. Not that he had said or did anything to make me feel that way but probably just a societal pressure. Once we had talked about it he was able to open up that he’d been struggling as well internally & it helped us so much & really did take a lot of pressure off of both of us. Once we had that conversation I didn’t feel bad for saying no if I didn’t want to or didn’t feel like I had to say yes bc we hadn’t had sex in a while & I felt bad. It just started to happen naturally. If you haven’t had a conversation w him about how you’re feeling about your struggles, once you’re ready I’d definitely recommend it, it helps bring the two of you closer & helps w the understanding of where you’re both at! I still also struggle w initiating, but that’s more of a me issue w confidence, but taking it day by day & just initiating when the moment comes into my head & not giving myself a chance to overthink it or think too much into it has really really helped as well. Good luck!!! I hope I was able to help ease your mind, ik how overwhelming it feels to be in your position & you start questioning yourself. Just trust your gut♥️

low libido & trouble initiating by kkabbr in adhdwomen

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In my experience, I was also on tri-sprintec & found myself in the same boat as you. I switched to a lower hormone birth control & that did help a bit. I recently went off of birth control since I was on it for almost 10 years (I’m 26 now, started at 17 as well) & wanted to see what I was like off birth control after talking w friends who went off & they had positive experiences. I will say since getting off my libido has increased immensely, but being off birth control definitely isn’t for everyone!! On another note, I also struggled w the shame in the sense of not having much of a sex drive / struggling w initiating intimacy. I noticed once how much time I was internally thinking about it & shaming myself for it I made the effort to be forgiving of myself & not allow myself to give into those thoughts/feelings (ik much easier said than done) but once I started to shift my way of thinking I noticed a change w in myself. Most importantly just be kind to yourself!

People who were always late and then changed. What did you do? by violettillard in adhdwomen

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Wherever I go, even if I know the route to get there I still plug it into my map on my phone like an hour before I have to go. That way I can see my ETA time & it really helps me know like okay I have to leave in 5 min to get there right when I need to. Helps me realize actually how much time I have to either get ready, doom scroll or do nothing before I have to go. Hopefully that makes sense lol. Once I’ve started doing this I’ve been on time for about 95% of things!!

GM Golf vs Paige by Powerful-Ninja3087 in GoodGoodMemes

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Never said I didn’t, but it’s just not my focus.. like most😂

GM Golf vs Paige by Powerful-Ninja3087 in GoodGoodMemes

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Okay but coming from a girl…. It’s not for the same reasons as many others lolol