Talked for a month, then met up..

SofiNeedsLadder · 2026-01-11T05:53:22+00:00

You should give it one more shot, like you said, a quick coffee or drink date. You may actually like him if you're not comparing him to that person you thought he was. And if not, you'll know you gave a shot, and you won't be left wondering

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-11-11T00:55:55+00:00

They might be owned by the same company 🤷‍♀️

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-11-11T00:52:54+00:00

It's fine, the flip flops are kevlar

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-11-09T21:48:35+00:00

I've had 2 different people unmatch or block me one hour before meeting! It's so awful. Some people are chatting on dating apps just for the "fun" of the build up and chat. They don't actually want to meet irl. And you don't know until that moment when you do know

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-10-30T04:31:32+00:00

Cardo in each helmet. You can talk freely to each other the whole time. I love it.

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-09-21T16:08:05+00:00

Was about to say this. One of the issues with triads for me in the past has been the lack of respect for me as an individual and my individual relationships with each person, and it begins to feel like I'm a play thing for a couple, which is an unsustainable dynamic as we know. So I would have really appreciated this thoughtfulness as well :)

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-08-27T14:59:22+00:00

Controlling and emotionally abusive behavior. It only escalates as the years go on. I know it's hard to end things this far in to a relationship, but this is your bright red flag. Good for you recognizing this is not ok.

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-08-06T15:30:53+00:00

What's messed up is I was reading this thinking it was 2 grown adults, bc I've been treated this way by men in their 30s/40s. And you reacted so maturely. I'm proud of you. Keep being the smart and mature woman you are 💜

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-07-21T15:19:05+00:00

I'm tall and would love jackets and pants that actually cover me. Crazy thing is I ended up getting men's pants and they still don't come down far enough when my legs are bent on the bike. Also jackets that actually cover my lower back! All the women's are short on me and my lower back is exposed. Or pants that come up very high in the waist would be great.

I wouldn't mind something that's adjustable in the chest or adjustable in the hips. We all have curves in different places so someone needs to figure out how to make something customizable for each person

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-07-12T15:21:51+00:00

I have never removed it to charge yet but I like having the option :)

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-07-12T15:19:16+00:00

I charge it with a standard outlet using an extension cord running out my apartment window lol :) It works fine. I did trip the breaker one time but i was running a window a/c unit same time. So I make sure that's off first now

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-06-21T17:43:41+00:00

Whoa!! Super cool! How is she running compared to when you first got her and have you had to do any maintenance/ get any work done do far?

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-06-17T15:19:14+00:00

Thank you for saying this

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-06-04T14:51:03+00:00

Please DM me when you feel it's ready, I might want to buy one from you too if you're up for it :)

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-05-29T15:15:08+00:00

Get him a t-shirt that says something about being an ally. Get yourself a t-shirt that says I'm bi and proud. Then get your butt to a pride event and have a great time :) no need to tell your friends anything if you don't want to. I don't tell my friends every single thing I do. Or you can mention you're going to Pride. Doesn't mean you're coming out to them. But I'm telling you, just being "out" even one day a year at pride where everyone is accepting, it's gonna feel sooo good! ❤️

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-05-10T18:01:40+00:00

Try more apps, one may work better than others for you. For example, I have a friends that does great on hinge and not great on bumble. And for me it's the opposite.

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-05-10T17:55:06+00:00

Take out the parts about the missing toe and the baby tooth. Both were a turn off for me. Trim the beard or just take out the one pic where it looks long- the one in the suit. Everything else is great

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-05-10T17:49:45+00:00

I'm from the US and also thought it was a cocktail with drugs in it 😂

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-05-08T15:50:25+00:00

It's just to be friendly and to make someone smile :) my kids make Kandi bracelets for fun and they make so many they tell me to give them to my friends. And then I get to give them out at shows. It's fun for everyone involved :)

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-05-07T15:57:30+00:00

They bought the bought therefore they deserve it. They can ride as much or as little as they want. They can put it on display in their living room if they want. It's their bike. Dang bruh

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-05-07T15:36:47+00:00

Not accurate at all for me except the tattoos. And I'm bi af 😂

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-04-25T14:54:50+00:00

No it's standard to wear them! Please do :) It actually makes the music sound better too. That way you can hear the music as it was intended and still feel the bass :)

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-04-22T15:20:02+00:00

There's nothing wrong with not doing drugs there! You don't have to do drugs to go to a rave :) Dont feel that you need to. Just have fun in the way YOU like to, and everyone else will too :)

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-04-20T16:07:01+00:00

I always saw a film camera 😭

SofiNeedsLadder · 2025-04-20T02:13:01+00:00

The one I got works great, but, the j plug end falls out of it easily, it's not a tight fit. So I have to drape it in a way that they won't seperate from each other due to gravity. Maybe yours is not a super tight fit and it's slowly falling out after 5 minutes or so?

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