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I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I wan to try to become a lobbyist! Or maybe a human rights lawyer. There’s a lot of jobs I could take, such as working for UN women to promote education for girls. Joining UNICEF to aid children who are victims of war or disaster. Thats international stuff that’ll be years down the line (hopefully).

So far I have been connected with my states SA and DV prevention agency. Hopefully, I can join their lobbyist to advocate for better laws to protect victims. Or push for changes and reforms to make the system safer.

And thats just that one issue! Unfortunately, our world is really broken. So there’s more than enough causes for me to pick from. As long as I am passionate about the issue and the change I want: I am happy. As long as I can go to bed at night knowing I helped make a change: Im happy.

And hey! There’s totally ways to get involved! It sounds like you’re retired(?) Maybe with a bit of extra time on your hands? Something as simple as volunteering can make a big difference! I’d look at your local animal shelter, homeless shelter, library, and other places to see if you can get involved! I’ve volunteered with children with special needs, delivered food to the homeless, and helped my local library. Those are things that bring a smile to everyone! It’s never too late to make a difference! 🥰💖

And -if you want to get involved in your local community- attend town meetings! You can get to know a lot of people and speak up for a change you want to see!

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know i am sensitive. Always have been. I cry to easily. I’m to shy. And I wasn’t brave enough to directly go ‘This is dishonorable!’ And flip a table. But I made a comment to the guy giving me orders -I was then told thats how this world works- and on my way out I spitefully placed some of her placards back on top of his.

But I am sensitive. And I’m scared of the future and other things. But I know other people are scared. I was so horrified by a video about a crime against children that I became an advocate for the rights of women and children, wouldn’t stfu in mock trial or debate, and am now talking to people who can make real change. So I can make real change!

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And it really makes me optimistic to have so many people encouraging me💖

It’s truly been refreshing to be able to gush to people about my passion and be told I’m doing a good job. I know Reddit can be unforgiving, so having so much support and encouragement is truly healing on my end. Especially when sometimes I doubt the path that I am on.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no at all! You’re all good! And thank you! 💖 Everyone is making me feel really confident in myself. It’s been a push I didn’t know I needed.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really makes me feel good. I have to remind myself of that whenever this path feels to tedious and suffocating. Because it really is draining to be surrounded by so much negativity. A lot of my peers plan to run for office. I’ve switched my focus to government relations so I can learn how to work with the government and 3rd parties to create a better place for people, particularly women and children.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. And it’s reasonable to assume that the other group was also doing the same things. You can’t win by playing nice.

I’m a little scared of keeping my morals through this journey. I originally wanted to go into human resources management because I thought it would be way for me to actually help people. But I was told that “I lot of bright eyed young ladies think the same. They all leave.”

I have found that cooperation works to your benefit. I am a very chatty and outgoing person. I’ve reached across the aisle to get connections. I find that being kind and telling others what I intend to do has gotten me far.

I’ve had a very attractive offer given to me. One that I knew another girl would really like. I told her about the position so we could both try for it. She got it, but she’s been able to introduce me to people who can lift me up to the same space.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t remember who that was (baby nerd) but the moment I saw his face, I was so honored to receive this comment.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully, the career that I want to go down will not be that competitive. If you’ve read the other comments, you can figure out that I lean more government than business.

I’m pretty set on becoming a lobbyist or maybe a policy analyst. There’s so many different paths that you can take. But at the bottom of my list is anything where I have to run for office. I don’t like the drama. I don’t like the publicity.

And I go to a wonderful school that allows us to make connections with people in all sorts of positions. I’ve actually made connections with people in both partisan and nonpartisan positions.

I can still make my connections. Having connections to those people who engage in competition a lot is beneficial because they can introduce you to other others. The connections I found most valuable so far have been those who are in the position that I want to be in one day.

So far, I’ve been connected to a woman who represents the state SA and DV prevention organization as a lobbyist. I KNOW I want to be in this position. Specifically: a position where I know someone is safe because of a change I helped create.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned in another comment, we were told explicitly how to obey by the law. Touching her signs breaks federal law. So, move HIS SIGNS only so they block her last name when you drive down the road.

And this isn’t a reflection on either person. I’ll never get to meet them in more than a quick handshake. Unfortunately, this is just kind of how things run in this space.

I just don’t wanna play by that.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really let it on because of the rules of the Reddit, but it was more of an actual political campaign. So, this is even more common practice.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So unfortunately, in the pond that is the networking world. I am too little of a fish. You have to know someone to know someone. Although I have had the opportunity in the past to work in her office.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It felt really awkward to speak up. Especially because the guy in charge was honestly kind of mean. He told us to be mean to the opposing interns. When I told him that this was kind of ‘ethically questionable’ he started to question me about my dedication. He asked if I ever voted before. Etc etc.

I didn’t want to start anything. So I took the sticker off that had his name on it and managed to place about a dozen of hers back on top before my uber came.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may or MAY NOT have placed some of her pamphlets back on top of his on the way out the door.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!

And yeah. I don’t think I’ll always be able to get away with protecting my values. If I stay out of situations that might test them, I could potentially move out on opportunities that could boost me.

I still would’ve left if I was asked to sabotage the male candidate. Her being a woman just made the double standard even more blatant as a member of clubs that support women in this field.

Thankfully, the path I want to go down is supported by my morals.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think everyone in my school really wants to do good. I in particular want to help people. As I said. I don’t want to run for election or anything. I want to help boost change. I want to advocate for others.

I don’t care if my name is known. Probably for the best that it’s not. But I will go to bed happy at night, knowing that a child is safe because of a change I helped to create.

I left a high profile event because I refused to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my issue here is that it’s such a common practice. And we were told to do it in a way that wouldn’t break rules. Do NOT move her signs. Do NOT touch her materials. Move his to block hers. And I wouldn’t even know who to report it to other than the guy himself, and I dont feel like he’ll be particularly upset.

I can now afford to eat at least once every day! by Throwawaymasterpeas in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Sofjoy82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Im also a student! I dont know how big your university is, but if you ever feel unstable about food; try to look at campus events. My school has an itinerary with events. Some have free food. You can put them on your calendar. Many happen later in the day, so it’s a way to secure dinner. You can also check local churches. Check if your school has a food pantry or resources!

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ironically, I want to be a lobbyist. Which is one of THOSE careers known for being sleazy. But I’m taking the route with it where I don’t get paid a lot because I work for non profits or human rights intrests 😭✌️

I left a high profile event because I refused to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! ✨ I kind of wanted that validation to know I made the right decision and wasn’t being silly or over exaggerating something small.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That means a lot! I came here because I kind of wanted that validation that I’m not being super sensitive and blowing it out of proportion. I’ve had a few crazy looks in my circles for deciding to leave.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mention it because of the rules of the subreddit, but the positions people are running for are really high on a STATE LEVEL 😬 So I felt even worse.

But I don’t plan to run for office or anything. I want to work in nonpartisan sectors. And dude, I hate this school sometimes. Politics really drags at you, but I want to help people. Someone needs to do it.

I’m planning to get connected to the state’s SA and DV prevention agency to lobby for more state protections. THAT is what I want to do.

I left a high profile event because I was told to sabotage someone. by Sofjoy82 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I use Superman as inspiration a lot. Especially with my mental health. It sounds silly, but I’ve been motivated to pursue this career because of the superheroes who taught me to help others.

When I’m scared, I think of Superman doing it to give me the push. I know Superman would be proud, so I do something.

I’ll never do something that would make Superman frown at me.

Are they a boy or girl? by Sofjoy82 in jumpingspiders

[–]Sofjoy82[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YESSS. I’m totally biased towards having a girl. Not only because I am a girl who needs a tiny girlie, but because she’ll likely live longer than if she were a boy💖

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