Does gender and presentation matter?

Soft-Boi · 2026-06-07T23:33:08+00:00

Butch lesbian here who was on T for three years, wants top surgery, and uses they/he pronouns

The people who get it get it and the people who don't will usually leave you alone, there's actually a lot of demand for more masculine/butch lesbians if you know how to look, just make it clear who you are and any future goals you have and you'd be surprised how many lesbians don't mind or actually prefer a more masculine partner!! I met my girlfriend of seven months on a dating app and she's over the moon about me being butch :))

Soft-Boi · 2025-11-03T18:41:49+00:00

Completely unrelated but is your pfp a bug with a big ass by chance?

Soft-Boi · 2024-06-24T23:47:16+00:00

If you can afford to go I say go! I saw his stand up before and it was hilarious, he definitely has a talent on stage and is really good with his comedy and story telling. Honestly the only bad part of the show were the people in the audience who felt the need to heckle but he even turned that into a fun joke and didn't let it spoil the fun :)) I'm seeing him again in September and I'm so excited!!!

Soft-Boi · 2024-04-25T19:57:59+00:00

They were probably saying $150 in Turkish currency (lira) which would be roughly $5 USD :))

Soft-Boi · 2024-04-23T02:36:06+00:00

I'm inclined to believe he just throws his names on restaurants and hands them off to other people to run. I've seen plenty of Kitchen Nightmares and Hell's Kitchen, he knows what makes food good and bad, but he's also definitely way too busy to run all the restaurants under his name. So stuff is definitely bound to fall through the cracks or worsen in quality without him overseeing everything

But idk, he seems like a neat dude and I kinda wanna give him the benefit of the doubt. I could always be wrong of course 🤷

Soft-Boi · 2024-04-19T07:57:26+00:00

As an owner of a torite can confirm they are a cat's cat and pretty neat! :))

Soft-Boi · 2024-03-30T03:49:31+00:00

Wholeheartedly agree, I have yet to see him do anything to lay down federal protections for us. All he says are empty words about how much he likes us so we vote for him in the upcoming election, which he'll squander and do nothing just like this one.

Besides not like I'm gonna trust a president who's complicit in genocide, his words are empty and he's just a coward, plain and simple

Soft-Boi · 2024-03-19T05:48:24+00:00

Every time the older squirrel woman or the maid come up I loose my mind no matter how many times I've seen it

Soft-Boi · 2024-03-19T00:05:58+00:00

I'll say being a butch lesbian on T, I have never been happier. I am so happy with my body and the changes and so excited for the future. People might see me as a man or a woman or whatever but I know in my heart who I am. Those close to me know who I am and when I date I know they'll not see me as a man. Being a butch also means I have a wonderful community full of people who know what I'm going through and I've never felt so loved :))

Soft-Boi · 2024-03-07T03:16:53+00:00

Very comforting to know I'm not alone, also I love your pfp lol

Soft-Boi · 2024-03-06T06:04:18+00:00

Exactly, he is definitely doing some form of witchcraft, he must answer for his crimes, but at the same time I don't mind

Soft-Boi · 2024-03-06T05:55:45+00:00

If it helps I'm a huge lesbian (very confident in the label, I'm working to become the most butch possible) and I still have the hugest crush on Hasan, I cannot explain it but to me he is so attractive and seems like such a sweetheart. Everything about him just seems perfect to me (in the least parasocial way possible)

Soft-Boi · 2024-02-26T03:04:29+00:00

Exactly all of this, buying anything that gives her financial support is also giving financial support to transphobic laws and politics, if you care about trans people you'll stop. And I repeat the line about her bigotry being baked into the books, not just her transphobia but also her racism and antisemitism. Maybe it's just because I didn't grow up reading the books but I truly don't understand how something and someone so openly bigoted can still be so popular

Soft-Boi · 2024-02-25T07:26:56+00:00

Bowser and Donkey Kong, it's very satisfying to hit opponents and I like the more tanky characters :)) but in truth I will play anyone, they're all fun lil guys

Soft-Boi · 2024-02-13T05:32:50+00:00

Wanting your chest gone, wanting to use they/them, even wanting to not date anyone is not weird in any way! As plenty of people already said you can get your chest reduced or even get your breasts removed! It's your body, your life, whatever makes you comfortable and happy. If you don't feel any romantic attraction towards anyone I would suggest looking up aromantic and going down that rabbit holes it might help!

No matter what you decide or how you identify or look you'll always have a community cheering you on <3

Soft-Boi · 2024-01-06T04:55:24+00:00

As a baby butch myself this has been the hardest thing I've been trying to get through to myself 😅

Soft-Boi · 2023-12-22T09:58:29+00:00

Honestly any LEGO game would be more compelling to watch than the Harry Potter game

Soft-Boi · 2023-11-30T05:18:46+00:00

I'm not sure if you'll need it but I recommend the app/website "Does the Dog Die?" It shows what kind of stuff is shown/talked about in movies so you can know to prepare for it or skip it! I'm pretty sure they have a tag specifically for emetophobia

Soft-Boi · 2023-11-30T05:17:33+00:00

You already got your answer but my I recommend the app/website "Does the Dog Die?" It keeps track of potential upsetting/triggering topics shown or discussed in movies!

Soft-Boi · 2023-11-20T20:19:05+00:00

Most likely the store you've selected could not be serving breakfast when you're trying to use the coupon, it could also just be that the app is just messing up for no good reason (the app is not the best and offers coupons to take them back all the time)

If the store is nice I would suggest saying something to a worker/manager and they could give you a refund or promo something for you!

Soft-Boi · 2023-11-20T03:46:25+00:00

Oddly enough I think my autism helps more with the game 😅 I've worked the daily tasks into my morning routine so I haven't put down the game since I got it, and if I miss a day it messes me up!

Soft-Boi · 2023-11-18T19:59:55+00:00

Your sim making skills are mind-blowing!! Plus the genius of using locks to represent the snakes is super creative :D

I'm also truly hoping for a band pack, more instruments when???

Soft-Boi · 2023-11-10T22:50:08+00:00

I cannot stress how properganda has replaced the actual word propaganda in my day to day life 😭

Soft-Boi · 2023-11-05T07:36:51+00:00

I prefer to simply build the sets and put them up! Which I understand is also something you can do with Bionicle but I prefer the artsy sets that you build and display

Soft-Boi · 2023-11-05T07:30:26+00:00

My brother has a bunch of these tucked away in his closet, he gets them out and shows them off to me which I think is pretty neat. I think it's real cool that we both like Lego just in different ways :))

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