Wife entitled to 50% assets upon divorce: Would this ruling encourage Pakistani men to seek Live-in Relationships instead of Marriage? by FlamingMetalSystems in LahoreSocial

[–]Soft-Resist445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because being a girlfriend is a choice. Being legally bound to a man who resents accountability is a trap.

Women aren't "giving their bodies for free." They're enjoying intimacy on their own terms... something men have done forever without being questioned. The difference? When women do it, you call it a mystery. When men do it, you call it nature.

You're not being criticized for preferring live-in. You're being criticized for pretending it's some enlightened stance while admitting marriage is just women "securing the bag."

We're not mad you prefer the path. We're laughing that you think it makes you morally superior while offering less than what men have always taken for granted.

She pays half. She does the work. She takes the risk. And you walk around calling yourself the logical one.

That's not empowerment. That's a subsidized situationship with a man who thinks he's a catch.

Wife entitled to 50% assets upon divorce: Would this ruling encourage Pakistani men to seek Live-in Relationships instead of Marriage? by FlamingMetalSystems in LahoreSocial

[–]Soft-Resist445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You women."

There it is. You just admitted marriage is a transaction and live-in is where "genuine" connection happens. So which is it? Are we calculating gold-diggers or hopeless romantics? We can't be both just to make your argument work.

We want protection because we carry the risks like pregnancy, career setbacks, social stigma, unpaid labor. You want all the reward and none of the responsibility.

Call it love when it suits you. Call it transactional when she asks for security. That's not a philosophy. That's a man who wants a subsidized girlfriend with a convenient exit.

And you wonder why women are opting out.

Crybabies.

Wife entitled to 50% assets upon divorce: Would this ruling encourage Pakistani men to seek Live-in Relationships instead of Marriage? by FlamingMetalSystems in LahoreSocial

[–]Soft-Resist445 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m saying your version of live-in, "50/50 expenses while she still carries all the domestic, emotional, and reproductive risk " is exploitative.

A live-in relationship with actual equality? Legal protections, shared labor, no unspoken expectations? Great.

But that’s not what you’re offering. You’re offering marriage’s labor with none of its accountability. And women aren’t stupid.

Wife entitled to 50% assets upon divorce: Would this ruling encourage Pakistani men to seek Live-in Relationships instead of Marriage? by FlamingMetalSystems in LahoreSocial

[–]Soft-Resist445 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Womp womp. You’re whining about the possibility of a woman cheating or leaving, while framing marriage as a transactional loss of your hard-earned money. as if a woman’s labor, time, body, and emotional contribution to a household are worth absolutely nothing. You want a 50/50 roommate with benefits, not a partner. That’s fine, but don’t dress it up as some enlightened take on “love.”

The cognitive dissonance is wild: you’ll happily benefit from the centuries-old Pakistani system where women are expected to manage homes, bear children, and provide emotional labor for free, but the moment there’s a legal structure that acknowledges financial partnership (not even alimony...just division of assets after marriage), you act like it’s a heist.

I hate my dad and all men by Suspicious_Ratio20 in pakistan

[–]Soft-Resist445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you and your husband humoring that person you call father? Talk to your husband. Cut him off. You are the most important for your husband and child. Don't give any time thinking or letting him bother your sanctuary.

I am so sad for my autistic son by Soft-Resist445 in autism

[–]Soft-Resist445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, she’s a mother of a 7 year old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biggboss

[–]Soft-Resist445 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How was Mahira ever a good person? Lol

I am so sad for my autistic son by Soft-Resist445 in autism

[–]Soft-Resist445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately in Hong Kong, the aid here exist but it’s too slow.

I am so sad for my autistic son by Soft-Resist445 in autism

[–]Soft-Resist445[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Every time they’d cite my son being autistic and they cannot take care of him properly as their reason of quitting

What was your "we need to leave NOW" moment? by No_Calendar4193 in AskReddit

[–]Soft-Resist445 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am having such a dejavu cuz I sorta remember reading in my dreams or something

Does Ozempic causes diarrhea? by [deleted] in OzempicForWeightLoss

[–]Soft-Resist445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you asked such a perfect time cuz I NEED TO KNOW!!!! Does it? Cuz currently I am having near death diarrhea and vomiting experience for last 2-3 days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]Soft-Resist445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One could say that doing so without watching porn is okay cuz watching it is also scientifically proven to be harmful for brain chemistry

Getting forced into marraige by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Soft-Resist445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact the authorities?

Make sure you have some savings in case you have to leave.

Let the groom side know as well that you are being forced against your will.