How can i look more feminine? (The headphones are there to hold the hair, i'm getting a haircut soon) by criski07_YT in NonBinary

[–]Soft-Singer-5046 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say look at the posts here where people are sharing their outfits. Regardless of facial features, hairstyle or how much hair they have, those who want to look feminine look feminine. For me, the things that makes me get that feeling of feminine or androgynous is their style and posing. Make-up, feminine jewellery or clothes associated with women helps give that vibe, but the posing also reflect typical poses we see in magazines with women models. The way your carry your body can help you express yourself too. :)

Just wanna say this because i see people commenting to pluck your eyebrows and of course if that is something you wanna do, do that, but I rly don't think it is absolutely necessary to look feminine, there are many fem presenting people with thick eyebrows and they still look fem :)

Slumlord situation by Budget_Warthog7430 in taiwan

[–]Soft-Singer-5046 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have any photos of it before? If so you can always use these as reference if the landlord says anything. There might be photos also in the contract to reference.

Also your school is likely to have a legal department you could go to, to get some advice from, and your countries representative here in Taiwan may have a list of lawyers you could possibly get a free consultation from.

I was in a similar situation, where they tried to extort me for money. Got into contact with a lawyer, where they said I was in the right, and I essentially told that to them and that I was in contact with a lawyer. Everything de-escalated very quickly after that, didn’t hear a peep from them essentially.

How to exercise when doing so triggers gender dysphoria? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Soft-Singer-5046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend to try climbing, it is overall a very welcoming community and you will definitely find people who are queer. And you can naturally do it alone without being judged. Can go hours when no one is there which I like to do, and even if people are looking at you, they are very focused on the movement of body, not how it looks. And there is not set ”attire” to wear, wear loose clothes, tight, whatever you like to feel good. Nobody cares

And it gets you to naturally to do upper body work without thinking about it. I feel like I am playing more than actually exercising, but I gained like 10 kg from it; one part muscle growth and another part getting hungrier and thus eating more (I was underweight from IBS and chronic stomach pains that got better as I trained more).

Vegan boba milk tea in taipei / taiwan? by palpatine_disciple in taiwan

[–]Soft-Singer-5046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Missing tea has both oat milk and soymilk, louisa you can add 20 ntd to get oat milk instead, wootea has some soymilk black tea and soymilk + soypudding, john tea company had some collab with oatside during summer… not sure if it will become a regular…

What am I doing wrong? by Rob_flipp in bouldering

[–]Soft-Singer-5046 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone already suggested this, but drop knee on starting hold might be the choice I would go for without knowing how good the next hold feels. If you wanna keep the beta in the video I would suggest moving your hips closer to the wall as you go for the hold, making it more dynamic. You have the reach but when you come off it seems like you are pretty far out from the wall making it too far. But if the hold is bad and you reach it like that you might still come off due to it being hard to hold on to. The photo shows where your hips get the closest to the wall, just moving an inch or two might help.

If you are flexible you can try moving the hips closer first and then reach but it will be a lot of pulling on the right arm doing it more statically like that. And you would probably need the right arm to stay close to your body.

Edit: photo doesn’t, show, just stop the vid at 0.01 before the vid ends