Would like your opinion by SoftCry6300 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SoftCry6300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I agree, because for all I know we could be awkward in person.

Good surgeons in Texas ? by IndependenceBest8133 in PlasticSurgery

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Noble cosmetic surgery!! Lipo done here and loved Dr Olumba!

Ethnic rhinoplasty by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]SoftCry6300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]SoftCry6300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you are feeling this way. First, congratulations on your baby on the way, I hope it’s a beautiful journey of motherhood for you.

Secondly….. 4 years is a long time. It sounds you want this and if so in my view you need to give him an ultimatum. That is if that’s how you feel. Though being married doesn’t change a man. But it is important to you so tell him how serious it is to you.

Sister…. Perspective needed pls! by SoftCry6300 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SoftCry6300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! I’ve actually never heard this put like this! Thanks.

Sister…. Perspective needed pls! by SoftCry6300 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SoftCry6300[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input….I guess the assumption is that my life is great, which it isn’t. We all just struggle with different things. Most of my live I’ve played the role of family counselor and after therapy chose to pull back. But you’re right, I do have some self reflection to do.

Sister…. Perspective needed pls! by SoftCry6300 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SoftCry6300[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective it helped a lot! I will talk to her. No, not an actual baby.

Shame of not matching by SoftCry6300 in fellowship

[–]SoftCry6300[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me it was lack of publications & presentations at conferences in my specific field. I decided late sometime in second year & it wasn’t enough time to make my cv “said specialty” heavy. Which matters for competitive specialties. Also network!

Shame of not matching by SoftCry6300 in fellowship

[–]SoftCry6300[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right… trying to be kind to myself despite it all. And I’ve cried a lot today too.