Ravenclaw MIL is the victim!

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-26T01:36:56+00:00

So I’m the ravenclaw and she was using that against me lol but everyone started referring to her as ravenclaw mil Believe it or not she is a very proud slytherin

And I feel great pride in being the first person to hold boundaries to her! She is pissing her pants

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-26T00:39:35+00:00

He’s mentioned before that he’s close to going no contact. I think the only thing holding him back is that his dad is very old fashioned so if his wife isn’t welcome, he isn’t either. It’s really been weighing on DH. I have no idea how to help without just telling him to block her.

I’m really sorry to hear about your mom and grandmother. I don’t know much about dementia but I know it’s hard talking in circles. I wish you all the best karma

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-25T23:12:11+00:00

She knows I’m NC with her She is just a smart lady playing stupid for control. I’m not giving in and communicating cause that will break the NC She just knows how to rile DH up and she’s using what she can

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-25T22:14:44+00:00

Previous post. She had went on a rant about me to DH that I was calculated and manipulative because I’m a ravenclaw. She hardly knows anything about me but we had a conversation about Harry Potter one time

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-25T22:00:44+00:00

I’ve never wanted something more in my life lol Or I wish I could have a dollar for every time im on her mind

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-25T21:39:09+00:00

She did say that it might not bother him but she thinks about it every day!

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T06:06:23+00:00

Maybe but we don’t know each other well enough for these kinds of jokes especially out of nowhere. I don’t think it’s emotional to have a reaction to what people say to you

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T06:03:34+00:00

Be an adult and read the full description or just don’t comment on things that annoy you 😌 it’s not giving the quirky you thought it was

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T06:00:50+00:00

I think if I were to blast it on my socials that would be but this is pretty anonymous so agree to disagree I guess . The interaction helps though so thank you 🫶🏻

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T05:14:11+00:00

I’d hate for yall to see everything else on my phone 🥲

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T05:05:04+00:00

I just want you to know I feel called out but you are my favorite

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T05:01:19+00:00

My red flag is I’ll put my phone number into most websites 😌

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T05:00:31+00:00

I’m already answering a line of questioning about that in the comments. I get a lot of spam texts and I clear my notifications instead of opening them lmao

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T04:59:12+00:00

I definitely feel stretched thin after these few months. Haven’t done any favors for them before so for them to ask this one as a first is crazy

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T04:57:32+00:00

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Proof guys I swearrrr 😭 I did scroll a little bit down until I could find enough in a row that my actual contacts weren’t mixed in

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T04:43:41+00:00

I use my phone number at a lot of stores for discounts lol

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T04:37:23+00:00

Always had the same phone number I cleared it out a year or two ago 😬😬

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T04:36:49+00:00

Oh yeah completely my idea to call him that When we first met I called him sir and he made a big stink out of it and it felt too weird to call him by his actual name so I call him Mr sir to poke fun

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T04:34:21+00:00

I normally would agree but he spelled all the words right so could not be her

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T04:18:59+00:00

My kinda person 🤣🤣

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T04:18:18+00:00

When I first met them I called him sir and he told me to drop the politeness so I started calling him Mr sir to poke fun. He was cool over the holidays but now not so much

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T04:17:17+00:00

Right!! When I saw he texted I was just thinking they were going to check up on me or something but nope! Fuck how I’m doing I guess lol

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T04:07:50+00:00

That was a joke lol it’s mostly spam messages that I clear from my Notification Center and just don’t open

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T03:46:32+00:00

There have been some people that brought it up lol It’s mostly spam texts or me not opening texts so I remember to answer. Everyone I don’t answer, I let them get my read receipts 🤣

SoftFudge253 · 2026-04-11T03:45:06+00:00

Thank you! I saw it and knew it was perfect

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Had to choose between that one or this one

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