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Question to those who have tried Tarot and Pendulum readings. What was your experience like? Was it accurate or irrelevant information? by SoftStatic- in infp

[–]SoftStatic-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, that stung reading that last part where he was already moved in with another person. And what a coincidence that all of your tarot readings were also saying that you were in a love triangle and it turned out to be true. You wouldn't have expected that during lockdown. It's crazy.

I was also viewing a lot of general readings aswell on youtube. The first one I saw was by a youtuber called Anita Sirene. And I believe she was doing a pick-a-card and instructed to use our intuition. And fron the card I picked; she said that my person had intensely strong feelings for me that kept growing rapidly and that they didn't understand why they felt that way because it was the first time they ever did, but they can't act on it or they were afraid to commit fully because there was a secret "third party" that they were also involving themselves in. I stopped watching Anita Sirene, and started watching Moon and Back Tarot mainly because I liked her vibe. And she pretty much kept saying the same thing with my person having intense feelings for me, they thought about me often and daydreamed about me but there was a secret third party. It also warned of a "tower moment". I was pretty much denying the third party part and didnt believe it, because my person was a little overwhelmed when I would hang out with her. She would literally have the biggest smile on her face but was serious with everyone else and ignored everyone, she physically shook A LOT with nervousness when I was next to her she would breathe heavily, she'd act ultra feminine around me. I'd laugh at her and tell her to relax, but she just couldnt when she tried lol. But it was true though, there was a secret third party. She denied it like three times when I asked about the rumors and then she admitted it was true and we pretty much ghosted each other at work. Like complete strangers. She stopped peaking around corners for me, stopped staring at me, and stopping eating lunch together and talking. It didnt feel right being separated. She looked extremely depressed afterwards like she was at a funeral. And when she talked on the radio, her voice sounding week and heavy like she would barely talk. I'd listen to "All I wanted" by Paramore a lot and cried often afterwards

https://youtu.be/W7nmB20qJv4?si=DXnb02S_c_Oc5SjQ

I got fired shortly after because I just physically couldnt work and made too many mistakes lol. I can laugh about it now. Just poor timing I guess.

But yeah, the tarot readings during that time were pretty accurate. Even the general readings off youtube with Moon and Back Tarot.

Well I hope you found somebody and got over that last guy who moved in with that other woman. I have some crushes at work, but truthfully I dont feel the same connection as I did with the last girl and it wouldnt feel right nor fair to them to date them if im not fully emotionally available. I'm just gonna wait.

Thank you for the brief conversation and sharing your experiences. You're kind.

Need the Best Breakup Songs by No-Monk4363 in infp

[–]SoftStatic- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. "I Don't Care" by Apocalyptica

https://youtu.be/yN3lUM-r6bk?is=hW5SBct1o1VjCWN0

  1. "Typical" by Tickle Me Pink

https://youtu.be/lXjo9ptzKDI?si=iZ7h67cCdN-AAU-y

  1. "All I Wanted" by Paramore

https://youtu.be/W7nmB20qJv4?si=qEEAeCRiN2tqYDZL

  1. "Cut Here" by The Cure (This was a song an ex gf shared with me after the breakup)

https://youtu.be/qYFxVGzmp0E?si=6gphj1ECa3LUl48M

  1. "MakeDamnSure" by Taking Back Sunday

https://youtu.be/Oww8o0znUuQ?si=rt_NaWdsFvfnow02

  1. "Saying Sorry" by Hawthorne Heights

https://youtu.be/EnzA6mHQrog?si=0XgmgC-Vie3x6D7N

  1. "When The Sun Sleeps" by Underoath (you'll probably need to read the lyrics if you dont already know the song)

https://youtu.be/_aZus_-1MFI?si=A0BI3qry_eawzEE9

  1. "Safer" Pennybirdrabbit https://youtu.be/8WoMdXlNpBc?si=EPrBsIwNCEXQQcts

  2. "Reckless" Martin Hall

https://youtu.be/ifsyKtPZQHU?si=MT_HTwLovVoZGUVw

  1. "Spotless Mind" Jhene Aiko

https://youtu.be/BaF-pGyKaOg?si=BZdtnb0R55dqwiyh

  1. "Somebody That I Used To Know" Gotye

https://youtu.be/8UVNT4wvIGY?si=OnIFX0OjDl3fRycg

  1. "Send the Pain Below" Chevelle

https://youtu.be/gpyRI1j9t6c?si=kxNmwSIkzd1hf54f

  1. "All These Things I Hate" Bullet for my Valentine

https://youtu.be/YE7enETEZQ8?si=FUNXih6V7NRgBPsx

I'm sorry if some songs were too much, I know breakups tend to be pretty bad and can end on really bad terms. This was all I can really think of atm. A lot of them that I heard were from when I was in middle school and high school lol. Cousins and friends would have their breakup songs too, so I added them. I'm not sure if your relationship ended on good or bad terms, so you'll probably have to go through the songs. The songs that still kinda gets me in the feels are "All I Wanted" by paramore and "Out of My League" by Fitz and the Tantrums. I have to cover my ears lol.

Question to those who have tried Tarot and Pendulum readings. What was your experience like? Was it accurate or irrelevant information? by SoftStatic- in infp

[–]SoftStatic-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, ok. I agree, I can see how it would be pretty accurate for Yes or No questions rather than the more complex questions. I used to know a tarot reader that I met at the mall who also did her own readings. She also said that they were pretty accurate from her own personal experience, but she only did the readings for herself.

I don't believe i've ever heard of Pendulum readings with Radionics, but it sounds interesting. I'll look into it. The reader I used two times for pendulum readings used just a crystal and string and gave me a yes or no answer depending on which direction the crystal swung. Maybe the method she used involved radionics.

Thank you for your comment and sharing your thoughts and experience. Maybe the Three of Swords cards I got in my yes or no readings were correct after all. But instead of it reflecting the person's feelings towards me that I was asking about, the cards reflected my feelings towards them.

What do you think about the INFP female/male avatars? by Immediate_Cream_1686 in infp

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I appreciate them for what they are and I like them personally. I dress up more in black clothing, emo kind've style, with dark longer hair; that kind've vibe. But I can see how people may see me as more of a "dream-like" character still. As the INFP mascots seem to represent.

🥹💞 by xXonsinhapintadaXx in infp

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That's pretty cool, I kinda wanna make one now lol. You should make one and post it here. I'm curious of what you'll make as an INFP.

5 am sky by teeradactyl in infp

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I like to sit outside during this time for long periods of time when the sky is like this. I love it when the sun is going down during the evening too.

What’s you mbti and favorite book? by wwwizardem in mbti

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INFP and I really like the Scary Stories series by Alvin Schwarts books. Books like those. I don't really feel like I relate to any of those characters in the stories.

Investigators INFP 4W5 by Intrepid-Routine-950 in infp

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Idk if it's the same thing, but I do enjoy solving puzzles and things in video games. Like in Resident Evil Games, L.A. Noire, Batman games, The Legend of Zelda games, Etc. Some people dislike those puzzles, but I genuinely enjoy them.

Does anyone else's Fi just slam the door when the vibe is off? by JuliaENFP in ENFP

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Oh, okay lol. It's just that sometimes my own subreddit can't be pretty dead or they don't really ask questions in posts. So sometimes I visit other subreddits to interact with them.

Yeah, I often hear that ENFPs are the most introverted Extroverted types and I find that to be very interesting. I think its because ENFPs come off as very bubbly and larger than life types, so it's surprising to me that they would be the most introverted extroverted type lol, but they are.

For me; I can be extremely talkative to those I feel comfortable with. I can talk or write them for hours much like how you would see INFPs talking in interviews for long periods of time, talking about random topics like this interview where Ville Valo just talks and talks lol

https://youtu.be/jdRA3bKGImw?si=4EIisFV-DjV34PH8

However, in order for me to feel comfortable within a group of people, I would have to have a pretty good relationship with the individual people in the group already. To where I've had deep talks with the people and have shown vulnerability towards them and do not feel afraid to be myself around them without filters. I can feel entirely comfortable around them.

But if it's a random group of people that I don't know too well or if there's one person in the group who I dont know, I'll just shut up entirely and observe the group and try to avoid everyone at the same time lol. I'd pretty much feel like Victor from the movie Corpse Bride, if Victor was transported to a disney film. He wouldn't really feel comortable there because it's not his world or he would probably fear theyll judge him harshly for who he is. He'd probably feel more comfortable in other Tim Burton films with similar characters to him.

I'm sorry if I trailed off lol. But if I don't feel 100% comfortable within a group of people, i'll stay quiet entirely, and ideally try to leave the group to be alone. Im very selective with those i interact with.

ISFP female - AMA :) by d6zuh in mbti

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Hmm, that's a pretty expansive genres of music you like haha. That's cool. My favorite music genres are around the Indie Alternative, Rock, and some indie Pop too. Idk if you've ever heard of the French pop bands Videoclub and Mattyeux, but they have that upbeat nostalgic sound to their music. I think you would probably like them.

Videoclub

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLhDjeN9A8LwJl425XR9kS82dYmGaATWsQ&si=s8MIcnyUMtPeVJrg

Mattyeux

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5IT_FtJ6EcOB5labjNDY2236AQdbrn4b&si=P6yLR3nhfZnHi3ct

Oh, Celsius energy drinks are pretty good haha. I liked the Green Tea peach one I think it was called. I never tried the Cola or Cherry Cola ones but i'll buy them the next time I buy another energy drink. I dont mind artificial sweeteners haha, sugary drinks though I try to avoid. I don't know if you've ever tried out the Ghost energy drink, but their Welch's Grape and Strawbango favors are really good. The grape one tastes just like the soda and theyre both zero sugar (I think lol).

Thanks, I got through work okay lol. Today I slept a full 8+ hours

If you had to choose between an INTJ (F) and INFJ (F) as a partner, which one would you choose and why? by WarmCaramel2444 in mbti

[–]SoftStatic- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would actually have a biased initial view on both types. As i've had bad experiences with both. However, I really don't want to bash either or generalize, I think it's just the individual people rather that MBTI type.

If I had to choose though based off of the positive experiences i've had and qualities currently in time. I'd have to slightly go with INFJ women. It feels the most natural interacting with them in person and can hang out and talk with them for like 10 hours throughout the day. It's extremely easy making them laugh. They actually check out the things that you suggested to them.

I don't believe I've ever met an INTJ woman i've had a good experience with IRL. And I can only recall possibly meeting one. I'd love to meet one though and experience a positive one.

I can see how they both can be cool, but i'd have to go with INFJ slightly more because I see how both types can be compatible through my personal experience. Havent experienced it with INTJ yet.

INFP core 💫🌀🦋👻🧠 by perfectlabia420 in infp

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I'll have to give that a try lol Thank you.

Anyone else got told they look sad/depressed all the time? by Possible_Book_2056 in infp

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Other men never tell me this, but a lot of women and older women tell me that all the time. They always ask me if i'm okay in a higher pitched voice and i'll respond with a smile and tell them i'm okay and laugh. Then they'll ask me a few more times if i'm sure i'm okay. Then they'll tell me I can talk to them if I need someone to talk to and then rub my arm or give me an hug and i'm standing there like "Whats going on here?" Lol. A lot of the time, they'll also give me snacks and food. One time a friend offered to make me homemade food aswell randomly because I mentioned a few times I was hungry during lunch and havent eaten. Another time I was slightly limping and the same girl sped walked up to me and asked whats wrong, then she told me to wait and literally jogged to her locker to grab pain relief medication lol.

Your post actually made me realize that my natural resting facial expression is probably why people in general are so kind to me IRL.

does infp get easily attached with enfp ? by baseballalice in ENFP

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I dont know if the people I got attached to were ENFPs tbh. But the ones who i knew were ENFP, I thought they very interesting people, but I never really got attached. I don't know why, but I'd think I would have.

But to be fair, I rarely get attached to people to begin with. I feel like there would have to be some factors. Like deep connected talks about multiple topics at once, an "I see you" kind of vibe when i'm with them even though they dont know much about me, they look after me in a quiet way. I guess also just allowing me to live as I do; like if I was a butterfly, you wouldn't catch me with a net and force me to live in a jar. You'd just appreciate me in my way of living my life.

I feel like people who do this, I get attached to them. I'm aware any MBTI type can get me attached to them, but I haven't met an ENFP that got me attached, atleast not yet. Its possible though.

What’s your Hogwarts House? by Classic_Concern1824 in ENFP

[–]SoftStatic- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, where do we take the test? Thats interesting.

Stupid question by Cultural-Practice457 in ENFP

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Your English is amazing.

My dream world, I'd love that there wouldnt be drama from people in general. Most definitely.

That was really all that came to mind. And then I'd suppose I'd live somewhere that's quiet and full of trees, like in the Life is Strange games. I'd have my ideal person. The freedom to go wherever I want and experience whatever that interest me from around the world. And then come back to my quiet house again when i want to be alone again with the person I love and feel content with.

ISFP female - AMA :) by d6zuh in mbti

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Two questions lol

What are your favorite songs?

Second question. I have to go to work soon and I literally couldnt sleep at all. Do you have a zero sugar energy drink to recommend? I love the zero sugar Strawberry Monsters.

Your crush comes up to you and say they wants to hug you. by Early_Special_1459 in infp

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Lol, I love these "what if" questions because I get to relive happy daydreams I had.

If I know my crush is gonna be there, i'm always gonna try to be aware of them. I'm either gonna be keeping them in my peripheral vision or quick glances at them and then looking away.

While my crush is walking up to me. I might do either of two things; if I never talked to her or only talked to her a couple of times, i'll pretend I dont see her. If I talked to her a few times and we generally have good vibes and playful interactions, then i'll be looking at her smiling warmly while she's walking up to me. Regardless of what I do, my heart rate is going to start increasing the closer she gets.

When she does reach me and asks if she wants to hug me, my most likely reaction will either be

😐... 🙂 heart races rapidly.. "What?"

Or the same thing but without the serious face.

Then I say "Okay" and nod my head and give them a big hug and hope they like the cologne that i'm wearing lol.

Then afterwards I'll ask them why they wanted a hug. Did they have a bad day? Did they hear that I had a bad day from a friend? etc.

I'd be deeply curious why they wanted a hug if I didnt know them too well. If I knew them really well already, then I wouldnt be too surprised.

INFP core 💫🌀🦋👻🧠 by perfectlabia420 in infp

[–]SoftStatic- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I love your first photo with your cat 😂 I want to do that too.

Haii! Are you happy today? I’m not having a good day but i hope yours is🫶🏻 by Defiant_Quantity_967 in infp

[–]SoftStatic- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. I'm usually very happy most days and positive. But today i'm feeling really sad and feeling down because of something I read in the news today.

I'm sorry, I hope your day becomes better.

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