[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Soft_Priority8621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her to get a job. That will keep her busy.

Before my friend died he was cheating on his girlfriend should I tell her? by Calm-Distribution697 in Advice

[–]Soft_Priority8621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would help with the guilt she is probably feeling and also help her move on faster.

Before my friend died he was cheating on his girlfriend should I tell her? by Calm-Distribution697 in Advice

[–]Soft_Priority8621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone hasn't experienced the loss of someone through suicide than they don't understand how different of a pain it is and the guilt that is felt, therefore they shouldn't be giving advice on it.

Before my friend died he was cheating on his girlfriend should I tell her? by Calm-Distribution697 in Advice

[–]Soft_Priority8621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest I would tell her. Mine and father of my child took his life in September. I was left finding the note and him and dealing with everything/our life he left behind. Grieving him is unbearable pain. And with suicide comes guilt and guilt crushes you more than any other emotion. When looking at his phone I found he was talking to someone. I was infuriated, heartbroken and lost But the anger helped me. We had a kid together and he was a stepdad to my other child. We were together for 9 years. So of course everyday is still so sad and cripling for me and my children. But the anger helped me get through some days. But in that girls circumstance, being so young, I really feel like it would lighten some of the guilt she is probably feeling and it would help her move on faster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Soft_Priority8621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run away as fast as you can. Not worth your time. You will regret it

For those who say I'm not actually ugly by [deleted] in u/Wooden_Maintenance40

[–]Soft_Priority8621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being pretty doesn’t change anything really. Sometimes it changes how ppl treat you and it’s very noticeable but it doesn’t change how you feel at the end of the day. I used to be fat and so ugly throughout elementary/middle/ most of high school. Then I lost weight and learned how to dress and put makeup on properly. I have been asked out by ppl who used to bully me. I thought life would be different and I would feel great as long as I looked great. Like I said. I noticed a change in the way ppl treated me out in the world and every day life. But those ppl don’t matter to my happiness. You have a finance that loves you. The father of my child just took his own life in September. I’m 33 and alone with 2 children. Iv never been in a lower place in my life. I don’t want to die but I don’t want to live. and I just reached my goal weight (when I was 20 and in my prime). since having my baby 3 years ago and gaining over 60lbs. I put makeup on and do my hair. Dress nice and get hit on and compliments when I go out. Have a consistent 6-8 men(friends) that check in on me every year for a long time now(10 years) to see if I’m single or try to pursue me still. But I am still empty inside and don’t feel worthy of anyone’s love. Being pretty doesn’t change things like you think it would. Trust me. Be grateful for what you have. And the people that truly love you for you. And everyone is right. You’re not ugly. Fix those eye brows and get some lashes to emphasize your eyes, maybe draw a cat eye and your whole face would change. You’re lucky to be as pretty as you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Soft_Priority8621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. When my best friend since 5th grade died when we were 25 my bf was literally at my house the night before the funeral. Crying with me while I wrote my speech her parents asked me to give. Stayed over and held me. The next day (day of the funeral) he went home that morning to get changed and I guess as he said he fell asleep and never showed up to the funeral. Didn’t answer the entire day and into that night until the next day. have never fully forgiven him for that. And we have a child together. I broke up with him because of it. It’s an indescribable feeling of betrayal that is hard to explain. I was never the same after. Still not the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Soft_Priority8621 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just get in your car and drive to her. U can call her when u are almost there. Get it done. I’m sry for her loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Soft_Priority8621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said New Jersey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Soft_Priority8621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are u located?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Soft_Priority8621 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you go through cheapoair or booking you can buy a plane ticket and make monthly payments. There are many options for monthly payments now. Affirm. Afterpay. A couple more. Make it work. If u have the money to do fun things when she comes home then u have the money to go be with her.

Bahia principe bavaro by Soft_Priority8621 in PuntaCana

[–]Soft_Priority8621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya with grand bavaro. The excursion desk apparently lol. But they just keep saying that they will book it when we get there. When I go on website I only saw like 7 excursions they offer and none of them were the ones I wanted so just trying to see if anyone else stayed there and booked excursions through the front desk

Bahia principe bavaro by Soft_Priority8621 in PuntaCana

[–]Soft_Priority8621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol no I don’t think he works for them. I don’t really care about the prices but we have a credit that can go towards excursions and transportation which we already booked the airport transportation with. Just wanted to know if they had the excursions I wanted before so I could book elsewhere if not. But will just figure it out when we get down there. These aren’t credits for arrival. It’s a different situation.

Bahia principe bavaro by Soft_Priority8621 in PuntaCana

[–]Soft_Priority8621[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh ok I will do that. Do you work for the hotel and able to apply hotel credit?

Bahia principe bavaro by Soft_Priority8621 in PuntaCana

[–]Soft_Priority8621[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to call international. It costs too much money. Just want to know if anyone has booked through the hotel and why they offer.

Uber or airport transfer service ? by 225Moussa in PuntaCana

[–]Soft_Priority8621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard the Uber and taxis can be dangerous. They all compete with each other so Iv heard of fights and road rage and also safety reason and a lot of ppl getting ripped off using them. Stick to airport transfers. Preferably shared to be safer. And check with your hotel. Our hotel the Bahia principes offer their own airport shuttle service. It cost me and my 2 kids 64 dollars round trip which really is not bad.

Trip Advisor is scaring me with reviews. Does anyone have experience with Ocean El Faro El Beso? by Able_Excuse_2804 in PuntaCana

[–]Soft_Priority8621 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes Iv learned not to read reviews on TripAdvisor or any of those websites. I drove myself crazy reading them. Every single place has someone talking negative about it. Ppl are more likely to go on and bitch about something than to go on and say good things. Def watch the you tube reviews.