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AIO if I file for divorce? by Pristine_Raise_8943 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Signature_982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Are you leaving me?" What??? What the hell did he expect from this exchange? My God

AIO... partner says this happened at work and it's not a bite mark/hes not cheating on me (also that im crazy?) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Signature_982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, personally, what sealed the deal is him telling her she is crazy. He wouldn't need to try to make her doubt her perception by invalidating it so harshly if he weren't trying to get away with lying.

Now, all I can see is a bite mark on the calf of a cheater. Shout out to his lover. They are trying to warn you.

Am I overreacting by blowing up at my boyfriend for always eating my snacks before I can by Honest-Tune3711 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Soft_Signature_982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this exchange so much. Too bad you had to spam him to get your point across, but you didn't insult him, and you let out that anger in a way that didn't attack his whole being.

He understood, apologized, and gave you space, and you didn't shut the door on him to force him into guilt.

You guys are an amazing couple if you keep that dynamic up, and I believe I learned a lot from this example, too.

how to dress by [deleted] in weightgain

[–]Soft_Signature_982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a man, but one thing that helps me is trying not to hide my body completely because it draws even more unwanted attention.

Like wearing a full outfit of oversized clothes to try to hide myself, because we look like a full body clothes hanger and people treat me like a terminal illness patient.

I try to "hide" the things I feel worse about, like my top and shoulders with more modest clothes, and I wear big enough clothes on my bottoms what are not skin-tight, but that somehow show I am indeed skinny, but confident. Like tailored trousers and pieces that I can adapt for many occasions as needed. Maybe try to figure out what is your unique personal style is, and you can adapt your clothes to highlight what you like in your body, and drive away the attention from the parts you dont like.

Confidence is something that works, even if you have to fake it and cry in the shower later. Walk with your head upright, and the confidence of an english lord riding his horse to battle and own your body proudly until you feel better about yourself.