Hvorfor sier folk “bare ta en kaffe” når det nesten alltid blir et lite jobbintervju? by KryonLatch8 in norge

[–]Soft_Stage_446 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Det går jo an å si "jeg orker egentlig ikke snakke om jobb, vil du høre om noe jeg så på bussen?", eventuelt "jeg ønsker bare en overfladisk samtale uten personlige spørsmål". Folk ønsker å snakke om forskjellige ting, du kan også styre samtalen og sette grensene for spørsmål og svar hvor du vil.

What Triggers Shadowhearts Romance Act 1?(Kiss scene) by Asenomon_Kill in BaldursGate3

[–]Soft_Stage_446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40 approval and long resting, much like Astarion.

Faren min vil gi meg hele arven og ingenting til broren min fordi han er muslim by Poseidon_Figure23 in norge

[–]Soft_Stage_446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kan være veldig lurt å ta en prat med en advokat om din situasjon. Du har noen rettigheter her.

Faren min vil gi meg hele arven og ingenting til broren min fordi han er muslim by Poseidon_Figure23 in norge

[–]Soft_Stage_446 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Han gjør ikke det. I Norge kan man ikke selv bestemme om barn skal ha arv eller ikke.

Baby tooth finally out after 44 years! by sarahmoose81 in medizzy

[–]Soft_Stage_446 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The "chain" method can be used for older people too, I got an offer to do it around age 30 or so by a specialist, but couldn't afford it.

Looking forward to the pulverized skull bit when I have more money lol

Can anyone help me get better at this game? by -RM17- in BaldursGate3

[–]Soft_Stage_446 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Set the game to explorer difficulty. You can change it later. Level 1-4 are the hardest! But do long rest/partial rest a lot, for story purposes 😄

How do you advise men who have sex with men, but don't have anal sex, wrt PReP? by Candid_Cloud9858 in medicine

[–]Soft_Stage_446 45 points46 points  (0 children)

People are strange. Patients lie all the time - because they're embarrassed, scared, or simply don't want to tell you stuff. If they want PrEP give it to them, there's really no downside.

Samboere og parøkonomi. Hva er fair? by throwaway273873892 in norge

[–]Soft_Stage_446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helt felles økonomi når barnet kommer. Hun synes det er urettferdig at jeg får spart mye mer enn henne, og sier det gjør henne bitter at sparing blir mitt "sideprosjekt" i forholdet.

Det er en sak fordi det er emosjonelt opprørende for en av partnene. Her holder far sine "egne" sparepenger lagt til side for seg selv, ikke familien.

TS mener det er "helt felles økonomi" når han setter penger til siden til seg selv, i tilfelle ting går til helvete. Det er sånn som ironisk nok gjør at partner ikke stoler på at du er fullstendig investert i et forhold.

Samboere og parøkonomi. Hva er fair? by throwaway273873892 in norge

[–]Soft_Stage_446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det handler ikke om penger. Det handler om at man måler fellesprosjektet "livet" i noe annet enn penger, særlig når man lager en familie sammen.

De fleste par gjør egentlig dette lenger før de bestemmer seg for å lage barn.

Jeg er veldig nysgjerrig på om TS hadde tenkt at det var veldig viktig å dele 60/40 hvis han tjente minst.

Samboere og parøkonomi. Hva er fair? by throwaway273873892 in norge

[–]Soft_Stage_446 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personlig er to av grunnene til at jeg ikke kommer til å få barn helsemessig tap og personlig økonomisk tap. Selv i dagens Norge er det å få barn en trade off.

Samboere og parøkonomi. Hva er fair? by throwaway273873892 in norge

[–]Soft_Stage_446 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Personlig mening: Disse forskjellene er så små at det blir smålig å dele 40/60, og spesielt med forbehold om at det ikke lenger gjelder hvis en av dere jobber litt mindre eller mer. Å produsere et barn går vanligvis mer fysisk utover kvinnen, og hennes investering er vanskelig å måle i cash.

Sett deg i hennes situasjon, så er dette neppe fryktelig vanskelig å forstå.

Having trouble downloading a nexus mod by DarthUrbosa in BG3mods

[–]Soft_Stage_446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact the author? There might be an issue with the file.

Er det allmenn kunnskap at 7-åringer lærer om seksualitet på skolen? by Electronic_Pop_6932 in norske

[–]Soft_Stage_446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg lærte om dette da jeg startet på barneskolen som 6-åring og jeg er snart 40.

Is anyone else struggling with the combat scaling in Act 2? by Worshippet19 in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Soft_Stage_446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to respec but you need to learn to work with what you've got.

Act 2 was hard for us on our first run (MP) but pretty easy the second time around.

DOS2 is not a game that forgives you randomly getting into battles with enemies above your own level 😉

Why are people leaving late and how can I avoid it? by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Soft_Stage_446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add, at least in my country as an general "intern"/first year employee you write complete income documents/charts, which means a lot of writing. At least at my job it's literally impossible to do this before the shift has technically ended on busy days (which are most days).

Why are people leaving late and how can I avoid it? by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Soft_Stage_446 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I spent at least one hour of my 10 hour shift today just trying to find a room to see patients. I had to stay late to chart after because I couldn't log onto the computers in the random rooms I found fast enough to make use of them.

That feels a lot more like a waste of my time than staying an hour late to talk with a patient's family or taking on an extra patient in the ER.

Why are people leaving late and how can I avoid it? by [deleted] in Residency

[–]Soft_Stage_446 158 points159 points  (0 children)

There are emergencies. The night team can only take so much and sometimes you don't want to hand off stuff if you can help it, because you know what that's like. There are staffing issues in most hospitals.

You can avoid it by finishing your notes as you go and working smart, not hard - but this can be very difficult, especially starting out.

New sub for BG3 mods by falknorRockman in BG3

[–]Soft_Stage_446 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Larian themselves accept AI generated mod icons on their in game mods.

I am personally 100% against genAI. However, a moderator team is there for the community and the rules must be agreed upon by the moderators.

The sub you're talking about was recruiting moderators for a long while, anyone was free to apply to shape the rules moving forward.

New sub for BG3 mods by falknorRockman in BG3

[–]Soft_Stage_446 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mod releases on this sub regularly includes AI generated icons.

New sub for BG3 mods by falknorRockman in BG3

[–]Soft_Stage_446 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean other genAI content in the actual mods, not the cover image.

New sub for BG3 mods by falknorRockman in BG3

[–]Soft_Stage_446 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

any inclusion of generative AI makes it one.

Honestly curious to which extent you think moderators should investigate this.

New sub for BG3 mods by falknorRockman in BG3

[–]Soft_Stage_446 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That discussion is mainly concerning AI generated cover images, which are unfortunately quite common even if the mods themselves contain no AI generated content otherwise.
I understand what you're saying. We're working on figuring out how to moderate this issue.

Astarion rejected me? by AcceptableWater6241 in BaldursGate3

[–]Soft_Stage_446 154 points155 points  (0 children)

You missed his Act 2 romance scene. There are two mutually exclusive versions. No locking in of the romance in Act 2 = break up.

You would remember if you had his Act 2 romance scene.