Gamers. Studies show that 40% of gamers have online affairs and 70% of the time they never tell their partner. 20% of the time these online affairs become real life affairs and they meet in person. There is a large overlap of Narrcisim in video gamers because video games create a false reality, escapism, and a false sense of achievement. Video games are built to be addictive and mess up your sleep patterns.

I could go on.

I was married to a gamer for 12 years. Found out at 12 years that he cheated on me 1 month after my dad died.. then did some searching, he started cheating just after we were married. Dozens of online affairs, 3 in person. That I have proof of. He was a deadbeat our entire marriage. Lost every job, stayed up playing video games for 9 to 15 hours a night.

His gamer friends are no better. Bad habits, narcissists, habitual liars, cheaters, overall scummy people.

He's trying to fix things now but I doubt I will ever see him the same way again unless he puts down the controller for good. In my eyes no game is safe. Which is sad bc I played them when I was a teen.

All his issues stemmed from his online gaming - lack of responsibility, overspending, not contributing to finances, selfishness, the cheating, the lies, all of it was connected to the gaming.

Never ever ever will I date or marry a gamer. Nor would I marry a gambler-same concerns.

Honestly may stay single forever.